What is better the normal relationships or Long-Distance Relationships?
Both relationships have their positives and negatives…
There is no holy grail!
When I was in a long-distance relationship, I wanted more time for myself…
And I had to build up my happiness by myself and became much more independent.
Who cannot be alone can’t be together… And this is so crucial to understand…
Most couples are together because they can’t live alone…
What kind of relationship is that?
This is not love…This is slavery.
First, become your own master before you can surrender in love to somebody else.
Only two independent people can love each other!!!
If You are all the time together with your partner, how can you appreciate your partner?
In the marketing, we lean scarcity sells the best… And so is it also with your darling…
Who doesn’t know separation doesn’t understand love… (Attar)
In our separation from our darling:
We appreciate our time to be together much much more!
We build up more love because we long each other to see us again…
We gain more trust and faith in our partner because we don’t know what our partner is doing.
When we communicate over far distance, we learn intuitively what our partner needs, and this is so priceless…
And we learn when to communicate…
For instance: In my relationships, we had so many golden moments when we are phoning precisely to the right time… I learned to feel from the distance in which mood my darling was and when to call.
My Video: What is good on Long-Distance Relationships? https://youtu.be/ciWKpGAPRKA
My Audio on Podcast: RELAX WITH MEDITATION or see link in the end.
My Audio: https://s3-ap-southeast-1.amazonaws.com/rudizimmerer/5/What+is+good+on+Long-Distance+Relationships.mp3