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What makes sense?
Regardless of where I look, I see so many poor decisions made over nonsense. Now the people of Thailand are banned to enter for instance Israel, Kazakhstan because of the coronavirus… The Thai citizen should be punished to let in Chinese people… I embrace the Chinese people, so I don’t have to go to Israel!!!…
Episode 11, How to find the paradise?
I was 24, started with a new study, fully supported by the government in Bremen. And additionally, I studied psychology and went to self-experience groups, attended Bioenergetic, Meditation, Yoga, Qigong –classes. Three years later, I was in an awful relationship and lived in an outstanding, lovely community together with devotees of Bhagwan… I flew to…
Why do we always want more?
Maybe we want a substitute for what we really want, and can’t get it? The Beatles had the answer? All you need is love love love… Most of the desires are fear driven (80% of the thoughts are fear driven because our mind wants to protect us), then comes greed for goods, money, sex, power,…
See both sides
People still think we should always think positively… That is so wrong it can not be wronger… And here you see the result: This week, in Australia, a loving Father, posted the pictures of his beautiful smiling kids and spouse on Facebook. And 2 hours later he stabbed his 3 kids, burned his wife and…
Love is if we do…
something for our parents to become loved by them? And afterward, we have learned to suppress our emotions to get beloved? And then we isolate ourselves from the other people to pretend that everything is OK, even we feel more isolated. Then we get depressed and suffer by isolation that we have created to get…
The danger of Artificial Intelligence
Imagine computers collect all the information about you. How you have decided? What is/was your medication, health? What is on your bank account? With which people you have been engaged? What is/was your sexual life and your sexual preferences? What did you read on Facebook, your comments? What about your YouTube-Chanel, Instagram? Even they collect…
You can’t substitute faith with positive thinking.
Faith comes from the heart or from the divine and thinking comes rather more from the devil… Beyond thinking, there is love, God, Tao, eternity, bliss, Samadhi, Satori, … If our mind is going in doubt or negative thinking, we apply positive thinking. That is like a pendulum for thinking… you give with positive thinking…
Forgive and Revenge…
Most of the people love much more revenge or punishment for a crime than to forgive… Our No is much stronger than our Yes. Our Hate is much stronger than our Love. This is even telling the Srimad Bhagavatam beside that this is 100% science proofed… Even you don’t believe that, why are seeing people…
Why can’t we get what we want?
The reasons are: 1. We don’t see the beauty in everything and can’t so enjoy our life. 2. We don’t appreciate honesty. 3. We cheat us by ourselves. 4. We think that we are superior. 5. We think that we are flawless. 6. We are idealizing things/people who will disappoint us. 7. We disregard or…
We are responsible for our whole life…
You get what you deserve (Tantra wisdom). We attract what is inside of ourselves and not what we want!!! Is B. S. inside, yes we get that… If we make the wrong decisions or. If we trust the wrong people or. If we get cheated or. If we get punished. Then we are 100% responsible…
What helps?
Positive thinking? If you are depressed by your emotions, results, job, relationships then you apply positive thinking? So what, then you suppress even more your negativity and think positively? Instead to feel your pain, anxiety, anger, and sadness. Afterward, you build up your love and creativity, and then you change your life. Your negativity is…
Episode 10, How to teach?
I flew to Montreal to hitchhike to the West… I was in a deep crisis, I just finished my engineering degree… My whole life I did want to become an engineer… My family and my teachers thought that this was impossible for me.., I sacrificed my health, my time for just a stupid degree… And…
How to get out of your negativity?
What will never work? Drugs, and to be afraid of your negativity. Both make it easy for your ego to remain negative. Instead to confront your negativity. Why got you depressed? 1. You have suppressed your negative emotions. That produces your negative thoughts. 2. Or you didn’t take the risk and you have chosen to…
The Mass is always wrong!
Or why people don’t like to help in an accident… There was a study ( published: Psychology Today) if the first 3 people who arrive at a car accident and don’t help the accident victim/victims; for the next people it will be more difficult to help, because of the group pressure not to help. If…
You can not trade your diet for money!
Getting rich and successful but suffer through chronicle diseases and premature death is the choice that never works out!!! Are you an animal that can not choose a healthy diet? If anybody offers me unhealthy food or drugs I say no… It is just so easy and it works for 40 years. Even I got…
What is faith?
You do it in anyway… And we stop thinking about the outcome… When we can solve a problem by thinking then this is not a problem… If we can’t solve a problem by thinking … For what is thinking good? Dalai Lama It is mostly very time consuming to go through all possibilities and then…
Episode 9 The winner takes it all
Please hear this famous song by ABBA after the divorce of one couple. And the looser loses it all? When I was 10 years old I started skiing and saw the great teachers skiing straight down a very steep mountain with the legs closed … I admired them and wanted to become the same… With…
What is the Coronavirus?
Ask first these questions! 1. How is the virus identified? (lots of viruses can cause similar symptoms) 2. How resistant is the virus (what kills or weakens the virus)? 3. How contagious is the virus? (What is the Ro-factor= how many people can one person infect) One person infects only 2 people!!!! 4. What can…
People don’t act rationally
It is more important how you say it than what you say! Human beings are feeling beings that can think… The most important things in a normal conversation are not the words; 80% of a conversation is what we express with our body, emotions, how we say it, in which pitch we say it… The…
How can gurus be an obstacle?
For most spiritual schools are important to grow your spirituality, be it the Kundalini or that you open your heart, third eye, and crone chakra… And for that we need energy! Our whole body needs his energy to stay healthy and for sexuality…. If we use our sexual energy for our spirituality then everything would…
How to reverse Knee degeneration?
If you want to suffer by knee pain don’t read this article!!!! Until I changed my life I had to suffer from severe knee pain. Sometimes it was so awful, when I went up the stairs the knee pain knocked me down… And I had strong scoliosis with severe disk problems and that impacted my…
Ideas of a madman
After my nap, I enter the kitchen and there is a big red spot from my over delicious beetroot Kimchi on the table… And I think my table has periods… And then I have the drive to write this Blog and my Laptop needs so much time to start… He likes to torture me… I…
Why the brave one becomes a coward?
I saw so many great and awesome people changing to lousy cowards even they had been before brave people… And that hurts me very much better… I asked what is the reason why such heroes don’t take any risk anymore? Why are the people getting old? The answer can be that their traumas limited their…
Episode8 Generosity
We had been on the North India tour with our Ashrams when one Bus broke down…. Because the buses were overloaded with people’s baggage, music equipment, and too many passengers… So what, we had to sleep but where and to find a place for 300 people…? Still, we had been in Kerala only 800Km distance…
Strategies to stop self-sabotaging
Most of the Strategies to prevent self-sabotage are not working… Because these strategies put us even more under pressure to be productive and will make our inner child furious so that our inner child will sabotage our wanted outcome… I have tried to see such a stupid YouTube with 4 strategies to stop self-sabotaging… This…
Females must be feminine!
‘It’s a man-made world’ (James Brown) Females like to copy the bad behavior of males and lose their attractive charm… If I see, for instance, the 79 years old Nancy Pelosi, Speaker of the USA- Parliament and President Trump… Nancy always is feminine, even in the worst encounters with this rude Trump… And Trump looks…
How to start with meditation 3?
Sound strategy With the right sound, we can move our energy to the place we want. Even we don’t have to express the sound loudly … The Sufis and the Taoists have developed great sound strategies to become blissful and to heal the body. For every organ exist a specific sound and for a different…
The trueness of the coronavirus
I will prove here scientifically that the coronavirus is not dangerous at all and is nothing more than the flu or a common cold … The new coronavirus infection has a 2% death rate this means 98% survival. One person infected by the coronavirus infects only 2 people… This means it is not very infectious.…
Strategies to stop self-sabotaging
Most of the Strategies to prevent self-sabotage are not working… Because these strategies put us even more under pressure to be productive and will make our inner child furious, so that our inner child will sabotage our wanted outcome… I have tried to see such a stupid YouTube with 4 strategies to stop self-sabotaging… This…
Episode7 What is meditation?
To lit up your incense sticks and to demand peace and stillness? Or to sit in a busy market and find bliss and peace even in the garbage place? Yes, this is possible, but not without God! Meditation and a personal God relationship are fitting perfectly … Because then it is is much easier to…
You get what you deserve
Imagine you are angry, and you drive on a highway… Because you are angry you will attract again and again people who are driving their vehicle dangerous because they are also angry… If you don’t believe it, drive a car when you are angry… Next scenery, you are angry, but you are not aware that…
How to start with meditation 2?
If we have released our negative emotions/thoughts, meditation is much easier! Why should we not do so? Ego trip? Life should be fun and so meditation… If we move our energy in the body upwards or downwards we will be superior in meditation! Because we can: 1. ground our negativity, 2. gain bliss and stillness…
Would be the world better without Religions?
In the name of God, the Religions have 1. Killed. 2. Tortured. 3. Raped. 100millions or maybe 1 Bill of people. Can you learn without to make a Religion out of it: 2. To make tools 3. To cook 4. To read and write 5. To make love 6. Science 7. Meditation 8. To worship…
What is to be mad?
If you want to be the same as other people. In nature every leaf, every tree, and… is different and no leaf, tree, dog want to be different as they are! And that idea to fit perfectly causes all the madness… Everybody should be different and also behave differently. If we suppress our true nature…
Non-violent communication
Or how to connect with people My Video: Non-violent communication https://youtu.be/theKluFmEZc My Audio on Podcast: RELAX WITH MEDITATION or see link in the end. What to do? Observation: When we want to speak about anything we should tell neutral, without judging what we have seen/heard, in any case, don’t judge people. So the auditorium…
How to start with meditation 1
Recently, I instructed a lot of beginners to meditate. The biggest challenge is you can’t learn to meditate within 10 days! And to learn to meditate fast is just good business. Dreadful teachers make 10 days meditation retreats and even don’t care if you are a beginner… The risk to get psychotic or schizophrenia in…
Something about love
The devil was struggling. His devils asked him, what should we do, the people help each other and caring lovely for each other… MAKE AN ORGANIZATION OUT OF IT! Yes, and it worked and works everywhere! The problem is if the LOVE is missing everything will capsize. The love should be our driving force for…
The Art to be an egoist!
Even you think bad about me… Still, I like to motivate you to become an egoist… Be open to that! 1. How can you love others if you don’t love yourself? 2. If we don’t value ourselves, how can we value other people? 3. If we don’t appreciate ourselves, how can we appreciate other people?…
A good Learner is more important…
Is a good learner more critical than a teacher? Without a student, you can’t teach! All these overpraising of a teacher crumbles if there is no learner who is surrendering to the teaching! Imagine you give a seminar over a meaningful topic, and after 1 month you ask the participating students what they have learned……
Episode 6, remain humble
Nearly 40 years ago, my friend and I were climbing in the Italian Dolomite… The Eldorado for mountain climbing and skying… It is so awesome and exciting to climb the vertical rock walls with a fixed steal robe… We climbed through the cave tunnels, constructed in WWI to kill the enemies… my grandfather was one…
Hey babe, take a walk on the wild side…
(Lou Reed) Fear is essential! Try out to go beyond your imaginations, rules, moralities and try out something entirely new. Jimmy Rogers, the legendary hedge fund manager has done this again and again… Still, he was the most successful hedge fund manager… Maybe that is why! We have imprisoned ourselves by our assumption, moralities… and…
How to learn a language in 6 months part2 ?
The very best learning course is Pimsleur (you get the CDs cheap from eBay, otherwise the app is expensive). Because you start to speak and memorize like a baby. All the other language courses like to copy the methods of Pimsleur but they are so lousy copies… And you need Flashcards that can speak like…
How to seduce, part 7?
Imagine you want to serve the women… All women love intercourse because we are biologically programmed to make kids. When I was starting with dating, I attended the very best Tantra/sex groups with the best Therapists in the world… Because I wanted to learn to love women… And then I wanted to become the best…
Slow down.
There was a guy who wanted to learn Asian martial art. He went to the Shaolin master and asked how long it needs to learn Shaolin. The master said only 10 years. What is if I practice every day 12 hours, can I learn it in a shorter time. The master replied, then you need…
How to learn a language in 6 months, part1?
The first method: from Scott Young & Vat Jaiswal.. Both candidates traveled within 1 year to 4 countries and learned 4 new languages and even learned Chinese… For every language to learn, they need only 3 months. Amazing? The trick, speak only regardless of how bad, the foreign language. It is allowed to use, Google-Translate,…
You can’t improve before you suffer!
Positive thinking can’t understand that we need the polarity and that the world is a representative of the polarity… For instance, you drive a car, and you recognize that your vehicle is drifting… 1.) You immediately apply positive thinking, you ignore the drifting, and you are off the road… Those are the results of positive…
How to seduce, part 6?
If everything went wrong in the bed on the first date… What to do? Panic Do you want to be an integer guy? What would do an integer guy? Address the elephant in the room, instead of making facebook… Face it… The girl is annoyed and even thinks it might be her mistake, and if…
How to deal with Interruption?
If we are doing a job that needs full focus, and again and again, we get disturbed by our colleagues/family… So that we can’t continue with our job… Good news that the problem is quite common… After research, an interruption in our work-flow can cost us 25 minutes…when we need uninterrupted time to think… and…
Don’t announce your success until you own it.
I see it everywhere that people say we will accomplish something like the Brexit and even don’t know how to do it! It is common and as stupid as possible to announce your forecasted results… Because you do have all the odds (including God, Allah doesn’t like bragging or proud people) against yourself… And you…
How to seduce, part 5?
What can you say on your first date? First, make sure that she comes on time! Before the date, say: “ I don’t wait more than 10 minutes!” (My whole life experiences tell me, there was not one person who has disrespect my time, disrespect me, and was a lousy person!) Smile, introduce yourself again,…
Why is therapy necessary?
I am on the inner path for over 40 years… I should know what works… I have seen so many people (10,000) on the inner path, and I have known directly that they are on the wrong path… In previous times, you went to a spiritual master and surrendered … You had to do everything…
Why is cheap traveling more fun?
Because it is exciting and cheap. 1. You meet many amazing people. 2. You are not so isolated in your hotel. 3. You connect easier with the local people. 4. You save so much money. 5. You have so many adventures. 6. You can develop faith in God in all of your struggles of traveling…
How to seduce, part 4?
We are feeling beings that can think… even most of the time we do think wrong… And when you want to seduce a girl, you have to trust your intuition… Train your intuition and don’t trust your thoughts! Even, when I was a true beginner, when I had a girl in my arms, I knew…
How to forgive yourself?
The disease of the Introverts and Perfectionists… You can do it, or you can learn… Failure is only possible if you can’t learn from your wrongdoing or if you can’t forgive yourself… There is always a second chance when you have learned from your wrongdoing! If you are a perfectionist… Think always, it is good…
What is House clearing and blessing?
It sounds bazaar… What is bazaar is exciting! Imagine you move into the house of a millionaire who got bankrupt and made suicide… Do you think that still negative energy is in this house? Do you think that this negative energy in this house will negatively influence you? Many years ago, I visited an exhibition…
Episode 5, Fight for your life
14 Years ago, I was in Brasilia, and I wanted to go to a Party… But I didn’t know where the party was, and I could speak only a little bit of Spain… So I asked again and again… And there were 5 handsome young big guys, and I asked them… They replied in broken…
How to Stop Emotional Eating?
Do you eat to feel better or to relieve stress? Many people eat 1. to comfort themselves, 2. to calm down, 3. to relief their stress, 4. to reward themselves, 5. as an antidote to being alone. 6. as an antidote to feeling boring. Be honest, what of the list above sticks to you? Occasionally…
How to seduce, part 3?
Don’t be a wussy, coward, weakling… don’t be lukewarm,… be passionate for something, be a leader Don’t try to seduce a girl in a club or disco, because the chances are too bad. In the clubs, the girls like to reject and in the end, they will brag how many guys they have rejected!!! First,…
What is, if you don’t commit to 100 %?
When you have made the decision and follow the rules/strategies to 100%, you don’t have to think anymore… You just act accordingly … For instance, the bravery of the soldier of Napoleon/Hitler… they just act accordingly, not thinking, no guessing… this means full commitment… No problem anymore If a person, even he is the worst…
You have to know when it is over
When I saw on YouTube the last fights of Muhammed Ali, it was just such a disgrace… Or the singing Career of Whitney Houston… Disgrace But if you compare the singing of Babara Streisand, Michael Cohen … It looks so that it becomes better so older they are. But you say that it is singing……
Inactivity is a major cause of death…
Insights (TED) of a 93-year-old man who makes bodybuilding … When we had been hunters to find food, we had only a chance to survive when we tried our best physically and mentally … After we killed that animal, we had to eat as much as possible to sustain our body as long as possible;…
How to seduce, part 2?
Make a list: What is lovable on you? Write a least 10 reasons why it is fantastic to be together with you. Learn to love yourself… Otherwise, you will attract the wrong spouse (who hates the opposite sex). Embrace yourself and imagine why your dream partner loves you! Let your dream partner tell you why…
You have to pay for your discoveries
Trueness hurts or is a precious gift. If you discover that your boyfriend is cheating on you… The price is high, but only so you can decide. We all get disappointed because we thought our friend is always acting in our way… And then our illusion is crumbled … And this happens in every area…
Why is drumming so precious?
We hear Spiritual people proclaiming that they are desireless… 25 years ago, when we moved to India to renounce the world … it looked weird… India was very poor, and the people were cheerful, happy, and healthy… And when we came back to our well-developed country, we saw the wealthy population comparable to India, and…
Can we be desireless?
We hear Spiritual people proclaiming that they are desireless… 25 years ago, when we moved to India to renounce the world … it looked weird… India was very poor, and the people were cheerful, happy, and healthy… And when we came back to our well-developed country, we saw the wealthy population comparable to India, and…
Is really the success worth it?
When I see and hear all these superstars … 90% of them are taking cocaine on the stage. When I was present in the concerts of classical Indian Ragas with the most excellent Indian musicians, and even unknown Indian Musician I totally got emerged and could hardly go out of that space… It was incredible…
How to seduce, part 1
All women and men love to be seduced!!! Because the new lover loves them and appreciates them… What is then wrong to seduce? So many lonely females are waiting that their dream partner is showing up and seduce them… Maybe it never will happen! And similar is this with men. We do have extrovert and…
Why should we declutter our home?
It might be the most crucial lesson in Your life! When I visited a friend, saw his houses, yacht, even his cars…. Everywhere junk and clutter. Why does my friend need a Pickup? To carry always his junk with him? We go through our life and collect things that we later don’t need anymore… And…
How can I keep my long term goals?
I come across again and again with People who fail on their healthy lifestyle and all the other goals… And I hardly know anybody who keeps his longterm goals! And I don’t have such problems to keep my goals… What are the problems? At the beginning of the goal-setting, most of the people are very…
Episode 4, Accept that you can fail!
6 years ago, I liked to make my yacht license for the sea. With 16 years-old, I have made my Sailing license, but it got worthless through the introduction of the Yacht license… How to make it? You have to learn like crazy the international rules for driving ships on the ocean,- 80% of the…
How to lower High Blood Pressure?
There is always a reason and that is also true for high blood pressure… The body wants to cope with some defects (physical, emotional, or chemical stress, diseases, toxic thick blood, damaged kidneys…) then the body increases the blood pressure (Dr. John Bergmann) … Actually, the body is doing good to elevate the blood pressure……
Why do we want to become a Super(wo)man?
If we see that hard training of the Shaolin Monks or Gurkhas,… For what is that good? Or, we recognize the bravery of the great actor/stunt master and Kungfu-fighter Jackie Chan. He wanted to become famous, and for that was his sacrifice. He was honest to his wife, a famous Taiwan Actor, I can’t love…
How to make small talk…
I am for sure a guy who can’t make small talk easily… If I want something, I start directly to speak with what I want, and the people are quite shocked… It might be that I am an introvert or that I am a little bit shy that I do not start first with a…
For what is Feng Shui good?
1.) The most important aspect of Feng Shui is to create a cozy home where you feel relaxed and positive. 2.) To give us an advance for what we attract… And that is crucial for our life. The Chinese emperors have applied Feng Sui for 3000 years to gain: 1.) Power, Career. 2.) Fame, recognition.…
Episode 3, The divine call
I was in Switzerland in a Tantra I intensive Group given by the famous Therapist Rajen (Alan Lowen) My mother had birthday, and I had to phone her… I called her, she said your father is in the hospital because of prostrate surgery…quite dangerous… you have to phone him… This was the worst thing what…
The bacteria control our life!!!
After the new discovering written down from Bestseller Author and Heart surgeon Dr. Steven Gundry (The Longevity Paradox) the bacteria in our gut control our behavior, feelings, thinking and our food… 1.) 90% of all our cells in our body are not human cells, they are bacteria, virus, fungus, worms… 2.) And 99% of all…
Models are the most lonely girls
Do you wonder? Women don’t like to be together with women who are much more attractive than themselves! Because they are afraid that the model will pick away their men… You go to a party, and the model gets the most attention and you as a normal woman hate that… What is with the men?…
Can animals think and feel?
Actually, our brain comes from animals. We don’t have even the biggest brain …. We always want to be superior… How comes? We think maybe human beings have a mind and not so the animals… To discover the mind of a friend, we watch his behavior… For instance, if we look at the behavior from…
The best things about making mistakes…
When we watch a baby to start walking, we never will see that the baby will beat itself up for failure. The baby has even its fun to learn… And that also comes true for learning a language… But if the parents are impatient to teach their baby/child something they show that failing is terrible……
The Law of Attraction and Law of Karma
The Law of Attraction is working for everybody, we attract what is inside of us, regardless of whether we are aware of it or not. The law of attraction also involves the law of Karma. The Law of Karma isn’t something that everybody can understand as easily. Buddha said: Simply thinking about Karma brings us…
Episode 2, How to study when you are too stupid?
Yes, I was a fallout in school. I hardly could learn my mother language and to learn writing as dyslexia was so humiliating … I am a shame of my family … And my family was teasing me that I am over stupid who had to go to a low-grade school… It was so humiliating.…
Living in a city, a curse, or a blessing?
Many people like to live anonymous in the city. I was growing up in a big family (my mother got 5 kids (2x twins) within 3 years) in a small suburb… The people rejected us because of being Atheists… and watched us, bullied us, abused us… The solution was to escape in a town where…
Why are going men to sex workers?
Every woman like to know! There is a TED talk about that… If you think that sex is the most important thing to go to a sex worker you are dam wrong! The boys are growing up in the belief: Boys should not cry. Boys should be independent. Boys should not be weak, should be…
New Sleep in method with Taping
Introduced as a TED talk from a professional drummer. Today the sleep deprivation becomes a worldwide epidemic, and it looks so that the smartphone is one cause of it! In the USA we have: 1.) 35% of adults are sleep deprived. 2.) 85% of teenagers are chronicle sleep deprived. Why do we need to sleep…
Episode 1 inspirational
What is missing? Inspirational Stories that give you power and faith to go through your crises. When we use our crises to connect with God, we will win in any case… Every crisis is the best chance to develop faith in God so that we gain peace in our mind. Hardships are really serving us…
How to understand Religion?
I came across with people who reject Religion or Religious scriptures that they never have understood! It needs no intelligence to reject something. A wise person finds wisdom everywhere and in every scripture! By Sri Aurobindo If you want to understand any Religious Scriptures, you have to read them with an open mind without any…
Why should we embrace Criticism?
When I moved to Asia, I learned again and again that Asian people hate Criticism. And this is so dam wrong, even it is part of the Hindu and Buddhist Scripture! We should not tell the Truth if it hurts..(Hindu and Buddhist Scripture)??? To the same time, we should reduce our EGO without getting any…
What is the best prevention?
Many women are still super confused about which kind of Birth Control is most effective… Why do we get kids even we don’t want to get kids? We are often our worst enemy… Often we do self sabotage our desired outcome. In addition, our animal mind wants children. The animal mind is our most influential…
Do UFOs exist?
In my whole life, I believe in existing other beings on other planets that are smarter than human beings… Even, I think that is so easily possible… When 50% of the Americans believe in a Lunatic. Or in Germany, they vote, again and again, for M, and expect that she is doing something good ……
How to kill every virus, bacteria…?
without using any medicaments…? We can kill with Microamperes (0.1mA) every parasites, virus, and bacteria… in the blood… And this works even with Aids… Since nearly a hundred years many Scientists like Rife, Dr. Bob Becker, Clark, and many German Scientists have proofed that micro amperes kill every virus… He was using only 50…
What is the most precious thing?
It is time!!! Nobody can buy time, not even one single second… Why do we waste so much time for meaningless things? When I have read the story from the kidnapping of Dr. Patrick Liew (Cofounder Success Resources) … Dr. Patrick Liew could understand that the kidnapping was necessary for him to understand that…
I need a girlfriend?
1.) When you need a girlfriend Ask yourself why? 2.) Do you want to fill this void inside of yourself? 3.) Do you want not to be alone? 4.) Do you want regular sex with a female? 5.) Do you want to feel self-confident because of a girlfriend? 6.) Do you want to show other…
The best food for your heart.
In the USA are dying every year, 600,000 people through heart diseases. 50% of the young Adults (18-24 years) have at least one coronary heart disease risk factor, be it too much stress, high blood pressure, unhealthy food… The good news is that 80% of young people can easily prevent heart disease. So earlier we…
Criminalization of Sex-workers doesn’t work.
(From a TED talk, link at the end.) No law or regulation could stop to sell sex! Every regulation and law have made sex-workers unsafe and vulnerable: 1.) For exploitation from the police, clients, pimps, and brothels. 2.) Homicide through the clients, pimps, and brothels. 3.) To take Drugs because of forced prostitution. 4.) Trafficking…
How to enjoy the Danish lifestyle?
Denmark is under the 3 top happiest countries since many years… I think we can learn from them, the hygge lifestyle! 1.) The concept of hygge is taking action that serves you instead to look for solutions on the internet. Take your downtime seriously and look for relaxation. Choose, instead to distract yourself from yourself.…
What is the Least Amount of Body-Exercise?
Most of all people don’t like to make regular workouts or body exercise. What would be the minimum of body exercise that we do need to keep our body healthy? After the American Heart Association (AHA), the American College of Sports Medicine (ACSM), and other health organizations are the minimum of training per week: A.)…
New Dating Strategies that will work!
Try to be the best you that you can be when you date… Just to be yourself will not work so good. 1.) Before you go dating ask Yourself: What is your intention when you date somebody? Do you want just to impress that person or to have sex, or to have fun or to…
Quantum Physics, Aura and Communication
Every Cell in our body has 1.4 Volt, and that contributes to our Aura. With Kilian photography, we can see our Aura, that is created through the Electricity of our body. After the Chinese healing, the diseases are caused by too much energy or too less energy, and precisely that proves Kilian Photography. For instance,…
How to break the ego?
In the spiritual scene, people think that we can break the ego… And if we have broken the ego, we get enlightenment… The Psychologists don’t think that it is possible to break the ego permanently and they can prove that. What is the ego? In the spiritual/religious scene, we define the ego as the root…
How the antibiotic can kill us?!
After 2050, more people will die from infection/inflammation than from cancer. The reasons are that through the antibiotic in the food, the bacteria become more and more resistant to the antibiotic, and the overuse of disinfection. The food industry is feeding our animals with an antibiotic since over 50years. Because through antibiotic the animals grow…
What is good on Long-Distance Relationships?
What is better the normal relationships or Long-Distance Relationships? Both relationships have their positives and negatives… There is no holy grail! When I was in a long-distance relationship, I wanted more time for myself… And I had to build up my happiness by myself and became much more independent. Who cannot be alone can’t be…
Quantum physics proves that faith heals
Dr. Bruce Lipton has proved and explained how we can heal our self with our mind. What we are? A battery with 50Trillions cells. We are not an entity; we are a community of 50Trillions cells. Every cell is communicating via the energy or via the vibration. Every cell is intelligent. The cells are in…
Selling Dreams and delivering B.S.
Today, in the past and in the future this formula works/worked and will work… They present somebody who could never find the solution/recipe/healing … And then they sell some awkward solution that never will help… Don’t buy in such Merry Tales… These Merry Tales are sold from all Religions in the world (paradise/hell/enlightenment, moksha, never…
How to spot lies?
How to find out who is lying? There exist sciences proved evident how to spot a liar. First, we should find out: Why people lie? Or why do we lie? Be honest! If we would tell everything our sweetheart,… Think this over what will happen? In a relationship should we keep a secret so that…
How to deal with men in relationships?
1.) A man is rather more mind orientated and a women more heart orientated… Problem-solving makes him feel good! Logic makes him feel good! Being mind-oriented makes him want to fix. It’s just how he relates to the world. A man can not fix the emotions of his spouse. The emotions of females are even…
You can’t force it!
Imagine you are a baby and your mother force you not to cry. Do you think that this will work? Imagine you do positive thinking and force yourself to be positive… Do you think that this will work? And both is the same! Express your negative emotions, don’t suppress them! The Feelings are creating thoughts.…
How to make your work fun?
When you do not like your work, make two lists. One list should be of what you like about your work, and the other list should be what you do not want. Also, think about what you can afford while working at this job. Choose one or two tasks you do not want and focus…
Why suffer when We want love?
We want love, and we go to the wrong people and suffer. Or we choose the wrong moment and get a slap in our face…. Why do we act in such a stupid way? I have seen many times, when I was not open for a new love story I became the target of girls……
So we always expect the best
Still, we can have many subconscious desires that want us not to win. If we suppress our negative feelings, these negative feelings will come back and sabotage us. Through treatment such as EFT, we can quickly eliminate these negative feelings and desires. What we see outside is already inside of us. The hindrances and obstacles…
Preparation is a must but adapt to the situation.
Why is it so important to be prepared and to live in the here and now? And this is even true for an army…. “No plan of operations extends with certainty beyond the first encounter with the enemy’s main strength” Quote from the greatest Army strategist: Graf Moltke. If we are not prepared for new…
What causes chronicle diseases?
Or what makes diseases disappear? As a logical thinking person I have learned before I can solve any problem I need to know: 1.) The “Why?” 2.) Or what has caused that problem? Makes sense?! For Western Medicine, this approach is not true!!!! Western Medicine is fighting the symptoms instead to find out the reason…
Science – A Belief Or A Fact?
We read in the newspaper or on the internet much news about science, what they have found out and after some time, it is proven that the publication was wrong. Do you know that a new science publication after three to five years is outdated or ninety percent false? A long time ago, people thought…
Be Passionate or die!
Our passions are connected with our sexuality … So older we grow and specific after the male or female menopause a big part of our passions disappear… and so our sexuality. Our religious Leaders/ Saints, Gurus who are old saying that passions are evil… Because they are jealous. How much sexuality remains after 60 years?…
What causes Addiction?
I have seen a movie clip about that, and it was not true. The author thinks that we take drugs because we don’t live in a perfect world. First, we live in a perfect world! Second, we are not white mice! The white mice will choose drugs when being alone, too fewer exercises, bad food…
Older women should date younger men!
Looks very controversial but it works… A female computer scientist analyzed online dating at OkCupid from 10 Millions of daters. She analyzed all of the successful dating conversations between 2013 and 2018: 1.) 61% of conversations take place between an older man and a younger woman, and in almost half of them, the age gap…
How to find Peace in your mind?
I have seen a short video about that. – The women said it is enough to do everything at best and contribute to the world, to make the world better… This is not enough! Imagine you are in a football team and your team like to visit a cave close to your area… After you…
Don’t be afraid to fall in love
And that again and again and again…. Regardless of how often we get hurt… At the end of the day, we fulfill with love our heart desires …. It doesn’t make sense to read and see a love story or to hear love songs;- if we use them as surrogate compensation for our loveless life.…
Life is a power struggle
Everybody, be it your sweet girlfriend, boyfriend, cat or dog want to control you… We all want more power… Even we like to live in a monastery peacefully there are always people who want to overpower us and to mislead us… The only solution looks like to live alone and close the door of negative…
What food is spiritual acceptable?
1.) Unprocessed raw food is usually the best. Because it lifts up your body and spirit. If you don’t believe that, just eat only for one day raw: fruits, salad or vegetables. Don’t eat any seeds, kernels. You will recognize how light your body feels and meditation is so much better. The feelings will be…
Why Suicide?
I saw a shocking video about an unsuccessful suicide attempt, Jumping from the Golden Gate bridge in San Francisco … Every guy who had over lived this jump, (from 2000 only 20 guys survived) regret that they have jumped from the Golden Gate bridge… On average for one suicide 115 people are suffering. All suicide…
Why does non-violence not work?
The Non-violence or Ahimsa was first introduced from the Hindu-Religion. Ahimsa or non-violence was created for the Braman (Priest) and Sannyasins (Monks) to live a peaceful life in a remote resort. That makes sense. Afterward, Buddhism, Jainism, and Christians had the fatal idea to integrate Ahimsa for everybody in their Religion… And this was one…
Everything is getting better and better?
I wake up every morning believing today is going to be better than yesterday. Again this is spam, and this is total nonsense. It is even often so that it gets first worse to get better! I have learned and profited much more from my worst days than from my best days! When everything is…
Why women over 30 remain single?
The biological clock is ticking, the women are over 30 and want desperately their own family. And they can’t find a husband, they blame it on the society or on the men… Their husband has to be the truthful provider for their dreams … 1.) The husband has to pay… 2.) Has to be the…
Why does a conservative attitude harm us?
The world is changing and today very fast. A conservative attitude wants that everything remains as it is… This is Fear to change, fear of the future. We want to be innovative and not to be conservative otherwise we can’t adapt in the best way to a situation. I bring here some examples: In an…
How to do a Kidney cleanses?
Our Kidneys are very important, and if they don’t work properly it will harm our entire body… Many people got Kidney stones and/or a polluted Kidney that influence our feelings, immune system, sexual potency, our skin, and our eyes. After the Chinese Healing, the feelings of our Kidney are deep fear and kindness. After…
What is good on our dramas?
Only through huge dramas we can get connected and opened for a new dimension. When I left the second time my body (with 21) through the wrong treatment of a doctor;- my life changed totally… I became aware of how precious is life and how I had wasted my life through my suffering… How can…
Inside of Bali’s Prison
I have seen a YouTube “ Life inside Bali’s Infamous Kerobokan Prison. (link at the end) I recommended that everybody sees this YouTube…. At the end the link Because it is so inspirational and honest what people are doing in prison to give their life a meaning… Even with a life sentence jail punishment. Imagine,…
Ikigai, Japanese formula for choosing a profession.
The Ikigai has 4 components: 1.) Something that you love. A.) Something that you love to do. B.) That stop your thinking. C.) Anything that causes you to be present. D.) Flow state. E.) Love F.) For instance: Drawing, dancing, singing. G.) It should take us in the state of bliss. 2.) Something that the…
There are no limits to what you can accomplish,
except for the limits, you place on your thinking. (Brian Tracy) This is again and again spam!!!! Selling dreams and delivering B.S. !!! These so-called Motivation speakers are making a fortune to sell unattainable dreams that nobody can accomplish. They got rich with their easy, rich/ successful schema and we become the losers. We…
Is a great love or a partnership better?
A great love relationship is designed differently than a great partnership between male and female. Can’t I have both? A great love lives from the polarity of both… the higher the diversity so greater can be the love. A partnership lives from similarity and to complement each other. So more both have in common and…
How to do a Liver Cleanse?
Our friend became so ill that she should undergo a gallbladder surgery to remove her gallbladder. We decided against that!!! Because the operation harms more than it helps. Instead, we made with her a Liver Cleanse… Problem solved! The liver and gallbladder are so crucial for our well being: 1.) Fatigue, lack of appetite, loss…
How to become blissfully?
If we push up our energy from our lowest part of our body (sex or root chakra) to our heart/heart chakra, we become blissful! The sex or root chakra is 5 cm above the vagina inside of the body; the heart chakra is between the breast nipples, or on the sternum 5 to 10 centimeters…
What are the causes of stress?
You don’t accept yourself and your outcome. Looks very provocative and it should challenge you. If we would be happy with everything that we are doing, we would never have any stress… Because we don’t accept ourselves, so we don’t accept our outcome. Beside that are impatience, fear, and anger that drive our stress. For…
How To Overcome Jealousy?
Jealousy is a passion that causes pain. Jealousy happens if our darling loves another guy, then we feel worthless. Or if another body gets the promotion that we desire. Jealousy is a part of our ego. We should not support our jealousy. Why? If we support jealousy instead of punishing the jealousy, it will grow.…
How to detox the gut?
We want to detox our guts to gain: 1.) more health, 2.) a better immune system, 3.) longevity, 4.) a higher sexual potency when making it with fasting, 5.) and to get rid of the negative feelings created through our toxin in the colon. Two procedures: One with fasting one without fasting. With fasting is…
You have created your own enemy!
If you choose love, you get hate. If you choose peace, you get war. If you choose success, you fail. If you choose to have friends, you get enemies. If you choose health, you get diseases. Because through our choices we create the opposite pol. This proves the law of polarity. Every worldly thing is…
The psychological results of 83000 brain scans
Daniel Amen had found out by doing 83000 brain scans (link at the end): 1.) how our psychology alters through a brain injury and aging; 2.) what specific diseases are caused by brain damages!!! 3.) And how to cure brain damages through brain rehabilitation. 1.)That even small brain damages through physical (accident)and psychic traumas in…
Don’t interpret Codependency as Love!
The codependency is often interpreted as love. When our 1.) Mood, 2.) Happiness, 3.) and Identity, depend on our darling we are codependent. “When we are no longer independent from our partner then we are in slavery. And Slavery is never love.” Bhagwan/Osho And this happens quite often in our first love. – We want…
Gut-brain connection part 2
D.) Love can heal and protect our gut and even our entire body. Because when we love we produce the love hormone Oxytocin and this hormone can heal and protect our gut. A newly born baby colon is actually free of bacteria and gets later colonized. The best is through mother breast milk. Because inside…
The psychological results of 83000 brain scans
Daniel Amen had found out by doing 83000 brain scans (link at the end): 1.) how our psychology alters through a brain injury and ageing; 2.) what specific diseases are caused by brain damages!!! 3.) And how to cure brain damages through brain rehabilitation. 1.)That even small brain damages through physical (accident)and psychic traumas in…
Give your years more life
“It is more important to give the years more life than life for more years.” Curd Jurgens But Curd Jurgens mists the point.- Without to have reached anything spiritual meaningful, you are a puppet of your fears. And your life is meaningless. In the last Interview of Jurgens, he admitted that he sometimes awakes in…
Gut-brain connection part 1
This report will shock you… I have done my research. I looked videos for 3 hours (see links at the end) from the best sources, most the things are sciences proved. Except, I add the wisdom of the Chinese medical system to complete my research. A.) Finally, it is proved that our guts are the…
Why does communication fail between woman and man?
Ninety percent of all women have their feelings and thoughts within a circle with one center. Ninety percent of all men have their feelings and thoughts within an ellipse with two centers—one center is to the feelings, and one center is for the thoughts. The men discriminate between feelings and thoughts and not so much…
Adapt to the situation
Adapt to the situation instead of to follow blinds rules. Don’t be a philosopher surrender to the rules of the market/society. – Osho Because you can’t teach the people to follow your rules. See these so NOBLE moralities/rules/principles from Countries which are making one war after the next or have been destroyed and are ruled…
Is your lifestyle aging you?
A new research done by the Mayo Clinic gives evidence: Poor Diet and Lack of exercise impact how quickly we age… The study starts with our cell grow… Our Cell grow will diminish under too much stress or damage through: 1.) chemicals in our food, 2.) medicaments, 3.) vaccinations, or 4.) Junk food. When the…
Learn to criticize yourself!
Then miracles will happen. Why? If we know, what we are making wrong, only then we can change. This makes sense,… Mostly of all people think that they know themselves. Oscar Wild said I am by myself the greatest mystery… Actually, we don’t even know our self… And if we make mistakes then we blemish…
Why Intimacy?
When I remembered one of the greatest Marketing experts in the world, Joel Bauer – Joel Bauer’s strategy is to build up an intimacy with his auditorium… He disclosures his worst moments, his recent done mistakes … And it works! Everywhere, we see sitting couples without sharing their intimacy, with covering up their vulnerability and…
The world is a distraction
And that we can read in the religious/mystical scriptures. Maybe we need the world as a distraction? No mystic could me explain why sex is not necessary, even we enjoy it… And then comes their answer: Don’t enjoy worldly pleasures. So what, should we suffer when we have sex? I think we suffer when we…
The world is a distraction
And that we can read in the religious/mystical scriptures. Maybe we need the world as a distraction? No mystic could me explain why sex is not necessary, even we enjoy it… And then comes their answer: Don’t enjoy worldly pleasures. So what, should we suffer when we have sex? I think we suffer when we…
For what is Facebook?
This question should ask everybody themselves? 1.) Can we socialize with Facebook? 2.) Do we like to argue about specific questions? 3.) Do we want to get approved? 4.) Do we want to show how great we are doing and let out the rest? 5.) Do we like to get entertained? 6.) Do we use…
How to lose weight?
The biggest problems for losing weight: 1.) Outdated strategies that never worked and are still done… A.) Count every calorie… That never works because our weight loss is mainly a result of our body exercise. Every food has calories and we should choose the right food. We choose to eat a lot of fiber, enzymes,…
Lovely relationships are better than money.
The Harvard University has done a 75 year survive with 2200 teenager from the Harvard University and from the poorest area in Boston. They checked every 2 years their health and asked questions: 1.) how their life is, 2.) are they happy, 3.) what are their goals, 4.) about their earning, wealth, profession, and 5.)…
The Meaning of Life
Life has neither a meaning nor no meaning (Osho). If we see our life… We get born into a family that we didn’t choose and get educated through them, that we didn’t like and learned a skill to make money… And then our sexual desires awake and we want: 1.) To enjoy our sexuality with…
What is destiny?
That is so crucial to know for nearly everything… When we are in the flow, everything is coming to us just so… Sometimes, everything is so difficult and then we see the light at the end of the tunnel… In other times we never see the light because it should not be so. When we…
Should we always stick to our morality?
The answer from the greatest Sufi Attar is No! A Sufi is a person that can surrender to every rule/morality and can break every rule. Because every enforcement is a veil in front of the Lord. Every morality can be a hindrance to see/communicate with the Lord. And without our morality, we can’t reach the…
5 Remedies that improve your eyesight
3 Years ago, I had problems with my eyesight and dry eyes… My eyesight blurred and often I could not see sharp… And today my eyes are better than before and also my dry eyes are healed… I have tried out many methods and herbs including Acupressure and eyesight training. Most of them didn’t work!…
Children or no Children?
That is the Question of most of us… Many people think that their kids will later care for them when they are old. And then they want children. My Grandmother would say: “ It is easier for a father to care for 5 kids than 5 kids care for a father” Because later your children…
Don’t care for Bullying
Today, people get bullied to suicide through the Internet. This is becoming more and more a problem. Why? Because we think that the Internet is a real world and it is a viral world or an illusion. Everybody can be bullied with exposing secrets that only they know. For instance, a girl messaged me and…
What you ever want to know about an α, β, Ω, and γ.
1.) Nearly everybody wants to be an Alpha… The famous leaders are mostly Alphas and some are Omegas. An Alpha is confident and can have a charisma. Is doing his own thing and have complete confidence in what he is doing. An Alpha is a person that needs to have a group where he is…
7 things that are untrue about healthy sleep
1.) We don’t need so much sleep… At least everybody should sleep for 7 hours, even the high achievers. If we sleep less than 7 hours it will cause in the long term: higher blood pressure, increased risk of cardiovascular disease, and diabetes. 2.) Waking up in the middle of the night is not good……
Broken Hearts
When I was a teen I was in love with the song Angie by The Rolling Stones. Somehow this song Angie came true again and again in my life… I was in deep love many times in my life and then crush … It is somehow that we own a part of our darling and…
The Art of Fitness
In recent years the industry has discovered the Fitness. Everything should be sexy and attractive … The outfit should be elegant… And the trainer should be sexy and strong… Sexy is attractive and when it helps to get motivated for your workout, why not? Why should we embarrassed to look for an attractive trainer? If…
Money or Life?
There was a very rich Jewish who had all of his Money in a deeper basement. In the night he went down to his chamber of wealth in the basement. He opened that trunk and immediately a guy jumped out of that, threatened the Jewish with his gun and asked: “Money or Life?” The Jewish…
How to become “out”?
When I saw one of the last videos of the “Fundamentals of Photography II” I came across of: I don’t care how old I get; I am always learning, I have never mastered it, I am always critical, I always think I could have done it better … The moment we quit thinking we could…
Our Fish our Food?
After the study, 50% of our consumed fish is now farm raised. Until 2030 it will be 75%. China produces 70% of the farmed fish. What is if our farmed fish is poisoned? First, we look what the farm fishes are consuming. Because, if the farmed fish food is with poison we consume that poison…
Why a single mother can’t find a new spouse?
A single mother has up to 95% (it depends on the country) fewer chances to find a new spouse… Why? The main focus on the single mother is on her child … And that will never work out for any good relationship. The most important part of our life should be our spouse. (A. Robinson)…
What is shamanism?
Shamanism is not a Religion but a healing based on generosity. Some years ago, when I was on the Rainbow festival in Munich, I meditated on a bench… A man in an American Indian custom liked to join me.- As an introvert, I didn’t feel so good, I thought he is a freak… And this…
How to relax in 2 Minutes?
It is easy if you know how to do it! I will introduce 3 methods from the Acupressure … All are good also if you can’t sleep. 1) Squeezing the temples to eliminate the disturbing thoughts. 2.) To open up our Sinus and to breath with ease. Remember, if we under pressure we can’t breath…
How to make new friends?
So older we grow so more difficult it gets to make friends. For our well being, most of the people need good friends. Today through our social media we have fewer friends and more virtually friends. The people are more connected to the Internet than to their friends and family. Our new Facebook friends are…
Distraction leads to depression
Why? Our time is limited. To waste time is the worst sin. (Mata Amritanandamayi) Because nobody can postpone his death! I have helped quite a lot of people who are wasting their time: 1.) For seeing TV. 2.) On a smartphone. 3.) Social media. 4.) Gambling The people who I could not help ended in deep…
How to get humiliated?
But I don’t want!!! That is the best way to get humiliated, it not to want. It is better when you don’t care to lose your face or not… The anxiety to lose our face is unnecessary … It is one of the greatest obstacles in our life the fear to lose our face! Some…
What is Spirituality?
The Buddhists reject all kind of Spirituality, they want only Nirvana… And all Spirituality is a distraction from their purpose to go to Nirvana… the extinction of the ego. Nirvana should be perfect peace and calmness. Even to feel bliss and love is a distraction… It never has existed the destruction or extinction of the…
Why do the Japanese live longer?
The Life Expectancy of a Japanese is 84.75 years. Only Monaco has a higher Life Expectancy of 89.75 years. Never the less Japan has over 50000 people over 100 years old… They are thinner, working harder and best until they die… Without a purpose, nobody can live long… The Japanese are well known for their…
What is the Gear Acquisition Syndrome?
The Gear Acquisition Syndrome (GAS) is the all-consuming desire to expand our collection of gear. People became bankrupt, divorced and took suicide through their GAS. The idea is that we need the best equipment to make the best… The reason might be if our equipment is not good enough we are not good enough. Or…
8 strategies to lose easier weight…
1.) Mindfulness If we start to become mindful (without judging) what we eat then our body lose weight. The worst case is always to judge yourself or to give yourself a bad consciousness for the things that you are doing or aren’t doing. Because a bad consciousness can keep us in any bad habit forever.…
How to get the power back?
They have thrown a baby rat in a bucket of water and stopped the time how long it will swim easily. And then they gave the baby rat Probiotic… The results were outstanding. With Probiotic we feel less anxious and our endurance will be much higher. Even better, if we want to lose some weight…
Our dramas drive us to greatness
If I hear Edit Piaf, the blind Andrea Bocelli, or the concerts of the deaf Ludwig van Beethoven I wonder why these guys became so great? Why don’t we embrace our handicaps? Our obstacles and handicaps make us great… Only through them, we can get to a higher level! How can I develop faith in…
Why does the love end?
When I was a child I never have seen a great love relationship only awful relationship problems… And I saw my parents mostly arguing and fighting; my father had always a girlfriend… When I left them, they said we had a fantastic marriage, … Blah, Blah…. That was for me too much, I never saw…
Make it in 1 Minute!
1 Minute interval training = 45 Minutes jogging The resent study of the McMaster University shows that a 1 Minute interval training can be as much for our health and fitness than a 45 Minutes jogging. How was it done? One group exercised a moderate intensive training on a stationary bike for 45 Minutes. The…
Can Meditation harm You?
I say absolutely Yes! Still, I recommend it. If we want to write a motorcycle we should learn first to ride a bicycle. Irresponsible Meditation teachers even give the beginner a big motorcycle (a 10-day Meditation retreat with 9 hours Meditation/day) and expect that you can ride the big heavy motorcycle without practicing anything before.…
How to become free?
What is freedom? Is freedom to be free of obligations and responsibilities? Is the freedom to take drugs and do not feel the suffering anymore? Does the society love that we become free? Does our society love to enslave us and to determine our life? Who loves that we become free? Can we have freedom…
Become yourself or a people pleaser?
If we have to decide to do it in our way and risk or to do it in the popular way, what to do? I have read a lot of biographies and always the greatest artists never have done any compromises … And remained unpopular. After their death they became famous. Too late? Why not…
With our “I” and “My” start the problems
The great Yogi Ramakrishna strongly avoided saying “I” or “my”. A wife went to a doctor and asked him what she should do because her husband doesn’t like to have sex with her anymore. The doctor answered bring me your husband and I will solve the problem. The doctor said to her husband before you go…
Why can’t men sleep with women?
In most cases, men are potent and have psychological problems to sleep with women. If you think that you are impotent, do a clinical erection test by yourself – is at the end… If you have a physical problem: Go to the doctor to scan your prostate. If the prostate is okay, fast for at…
The beauty of uncertainty
Even we try to get everything under our control, we can’t control our relationships. And most relationships end with closed hearts because of anxiety to get hurt… Without the uncertainty: 1.) is no love possible, 2.) is no personal growth, 3.) no spirituality, 4.) no excitement…. Still, most people hate uncertainty and so the relationship…
Why can’t women sleep with men?
Because of Physical issues and Psychology issues. 1.) Low libido. When having a menopausal problem,- the females have a lack of sex hormones or a dry vagina. In these cases, they have pain when they have sex… Or if the body is too fat. 2.) Difficulty being aroused. When women are: stressed out, tired, depressed,…
Positive and negative selfishness
All Religions condemn selfishness and that is wrong. We should discriminate between positive and negative selfishness. What is positive and constructive selfishness? 1.) To have children and to have not children. It depends on the person if he/she likes to have children. 2.) To enjoy sex. With sex we can show our love to our…
The Remedy of Envy
We are all human beings and we have sometimes envy and resentments against people who make it better than us…. The envy is coming from our animal mind and is hard-wired in our mind-body complex. Who wonders that animals, for instance, the dogs are envy…?rudi.zimmerer@gmail.com The roots of envy are that we compare other people…
A world without men?
What should men do? Cut their balls and transform them into a feminist boy… In interviews from a British reporter done in Germany with feminists and normal women, you could see that all feminists (without any exception) didn’t know anything from the killed and raped females in Germany. The feminism ignores the raped and killed…
Why we need our personal boundaries?
I recently could understand why many of my relationships didn’t work out…. The reason is simple my girlfriends didn’t accept my personal boundaries…. Our personal boundaries are our physical, emotional and mental limits. We protect our boundaries because we want to keep our rules and ethics and don’t want to get manipulated or emotionally hurt.…
How to come out of a crises?
1.)Do what is meaningful for you. Regardless of how much money you earn or have if your life has no meaning, you get lost. When Viktor Frankl was in a KZ of the Nazis, he was challenged…. And then he discovered the “search of meaning” for every human being…. If we don’t support our search…
What is Kai Zen?
Or, why we can’t reach our goals? The Japanese answer is: we want too fast too much. The Japanese tradition is Kai (change) Zen (wisdom) invented by Masaaki Imai. We should not change our life spontaneously but slowly and wisely. The new habits should occur as a result of our reflections and life experience. The…
Why is passionate love stupid?
All Religions are telling us that we should omit a passionate, sexual love. Because when we are passionate we lose our calmness and can’t find peace in our mind. When we live our passions, and the greatest passion is love, we lose our fears and in the end, we will find peace in our mind.…
Fear of Death
Who is afraid of his death, his life is already gone… Fear only Allah I came across a YouTube (never say die) of the longest living people of the world, they live in Bama Yao County (China/Vietnam border). In Bama are living quite a lot of elderly over 100 years old, the oldest is 126Years…
How can we change our self-talk?
“I am also that…” When somebody abuse you; think, “I am also that…” For instance: Somebody is screaming: “You B*tch”, “Cut your b*lls”, “As-wh*le”, “F*ck you…” Sometimes, everybody is an As-wh*le…. Because, sometimes, everybody is messing up, do the wrong thing,… We are not perfect. Our imperfection makes us perfect! It is okay for me…
How to memorize?
We are overloaded with the information on the Internet and the media and we can’t process the information. Why we take all the information in when we can’t process or memorize them? Our brain tries to sort out the information what is significant and what not. And our brain can’t handle so much data that…
Why are girls love bad boys?
Even the girls know that these bad guys are not good for them, still, they are attracted to them. 1.) Nice guys are too boring. 2.) Bad guys are arrogant. Females hate arrogant guys, still, the girls love them. 3.) Women love to be treated specially. 4.) Nice guys think that women are so fragile.…
Why we can’t decide?
The answer is in the next question! What are the benefits of staying blocked? When we are inactive we assume that we stay saved. And that our world will not change… Imagine, you are standing in the middle of a highway and assume nothing can harm you when you will not move…? The opposite is…
Enjoy feeling bad
We were growing up with: “to be happy is the best”… and “to feel bad is bad” … And so we were forced to suppress our negative feelings and to suffer by getting diseases or depression through our hidden feelings. We learned that we can fix our bad feelings, through seeing TV, eating sweets, taking…
The 7 biggest obstacles in marriages
1.)Wrong or too less communication about what you want, how you feel leads to divorce. Communicate what you want and accept what your spouse expect from you! When both are hurting each other continuously, the love will end soon. Communicate what hurts you, without blemishing the other person!!! Because everybody is responsible for his/her life!…
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