For instance, Relationship!
After Anthonie Robbins we should make a list for our dream partner and one for our hell partner.
You think, you have finally found your dream partner and as the days goes by … The relationship becomes worse…
What went wrong?
1. Both persons are attracting unconsciousness the partner that fits best to their child hood or traumas and are similar to their parents! That is 100% proved over 100 years from psychology.
2. When we demand something from our partner that he/she doesn’t want then we push our partner. That creates tension and that makes our relationship not better, mostly worse.
3. We think we have deserved a better partner and our partner thinks the same about us.
4. Even if we demand unconsciously something that our partner doesn’t want he/she feels the tension.
5. So more we demand or entitle something so worse the situation becomes and that is true for nearly every situation.
The Solution how to make out everything something good.
2. We forgive everything that had hurt us in that situation or relationship.
3. We accept the reality. Before we want to change the situation WE HAVE TO ACCEPT the situation.
When we accept the situation we free us from our tension and are open for a solution that we could not see before.
4. We are grateful for our challenges because they will teach us a valuable lesson. Even more we should be grateful for everything, the good things and the things in our life.
That is the best remedy for depression proved by the University of London. The next study from the University of London is that so more we are grateful so happier we are and the most happiest people are the most grateful people.
For instance, Warren Buffet and Oprah Winfrey are doing EVERY MORNING a gratitude list for 20 minutes directly when they get out of the bed.
1. We do our best and don’t calculate that our partner should recognize that and do the same! Other wise it will not work because it is again entitlement.
When we are getting in love with a person, we get identified with our partner…
And that creates tension, fear of loosing our partner…
So higher our love so higher the tension, fear…
That is normal.
After some time our love subsides and that is normal for worldly love.
Then comes our demanding or entitlement for something that our partner doesn’t want to give us.
What is if we would apply the strategy that I have introduced you before?
That can create a good relationship or something that we wanted.
At least we have done our best and can’t blemish ourselves for not doing so.
We have learned a lot and can do it next time better.
That is our choice!
My Video: Entitlement is the biggest trap of all time. https://youtu.be/7Xc1lddgdPk
My Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast5/Entitlement-is-the-biggest-trap-of-all-time.mp3