If you don’t give your kids an identity of what it means to be a member of your family they find their identity somewhere else in the world.
In the last 10 years, it has shifted to social media, text group chats, YouTube channels…
Teenagers are hunting for identity.
And when you don’t give them the roots in your family and their identity they gone find it somewhere else and that is dangerous…
You ask youngsters what is your identity or idol
And the answer is somehow online…
We have to give our kids roots and wings.
You give them roots in your home, a strong identity of who they are, what it means to carry their last name… And you tell that through stories, principle-based stories.
Everyone should have faith in God and we love God.
Every Family member supports each other…
Everyone should design his/her life values.
We should help the kids to define their life standards so that their life standards are not contradicting. And they can change their life standards when they don’t serve them well or don’t have fun with them. Every change is good for developing a good personality.
So the kids live after their principals and tell stories about how they did it..
Applause for every deed that was processed by these principles.
The kids should earn their stuff instead of giving everything for free and spoiling them…
No bribery and buying love through gifts and money.
My Video: How to create a healthy kid-identification? https://youtu.be/eOHSxN5UnHM
My Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast4/How-to-create-a-healthy-kid-identification.mp3