What is the difference between worldly love and true love?
Antonie Robbins had made a research for: What must the other person do, in order that you feel to be loved from that person? The answers on this question, had been different for mostly of all people. Some female need a beautiful ring, or a kiss, or that she can tell you all her problems without interrupting her, or a house, …. For male, the answer had been for instance: to give him a beautiful smile, to be great in the bed, a kiss… The solution is simple, just ask your partner to give you what you want, in order that you love him/her … Do you think that this has something to do with love? If my laptop is doing what I want, this can even happen with a Windows 7 laptop, then I have to love him and for the Blue-screen I will beat him up!!!
Sorry, for me is true love different! It has nothing to do, that my darling has to fulfill me all or many desires in order that I can love my darling…. I have no control over love. I have to be open for the love and for that all mystical seeker, true religion person doing exercises/contemplation/ meditation for that. In the daily life we get so many times hurt, even not aware of it and then our heart shut down, love can’t be received anymore. Love is just a state of our being, and has nothing to do with the environment/people…. I can open mostly of all hearts with my spiritual/ bio energetic tools, and but I can’t give you love… The love comes as a byproduct when our heart is open… Because love is God. When we see that everything is so beautiful without demanding, we are in the state of love… Do you think that you can produced that? God has given you a darling in order that you open up your heart, then love, because with your darling it is easier to love. But love is always their. After my 3rd 9month meditation retreat, my friend (previously a slaughter, a 007 Agent) invited me to a concert in the Slaughter Hall, with Nusrat Fateh Ali Khan. After the concert everything was incredible beautiful/love… for hours… From this time on, I know, if I don’t see that, I am not in my heart or my heart is not open.
What doesn’t work? Don’t take it personally… You can see people who are just like babies and they can ask for everything without to be afraid… Why should they be anxious? If the person rejects them, they even try it harder… Because it is challenging. If we go to every girl what we desire and