If we court up in a devastating situation, like a divorce, or failed the examination, we lose our self-esteem and self-confidence.
In life, we can not always win, so we have to learn to get back fast on track. We even don’t need to be in a such a bad situation when we had reacted smartly… You agree?
We think that all of our acquisitions and our goals are very important and that is our mistake. When we imagine we lying on our deathbed, do you think that mostly what we have done or got is important? Nope
Why is our today failing so meaningful? Because we have invested very much of our energy, money and now we have lost it.
Billionaire Flick was 4 times bankrupt and done it again and again!
Why could Flick become a Billionaire again and again? Because he had learned that!
The learning is more important than the acquisition!
And the knowledge can’t be lost through a failure, even more through the failures we learn much more.
If we got divorced? Great!!! You think you have failed, sure because you have married!!!
Can you forecast how you will be in 10 years:
2.) What desires you have?
3.) What habits have you gained?
4.) How beautiful are you?
5.) How wealthy are you?
6.) How healthy are you?
7.) Can you forecast how your spouse will be in 10 years?
8.) How many children will you have?
9.) How sweet, healthy, smart, beautiful your kids will be?
The divorce rates depend on the country and are between 20% to 70%. Many countries like Thailand even cheat the statistic. In Germany are over 90% of the wives unhappy with their spouse after 5years, and the divorce rate is over 40%. And for a husband is it so expensive to separate. Marriage is risky.
If you can’t predict and control your wedding, how can you be a failure when you divorce?
You can only be a failure when you didn’t have learned anything!
When we end in a catastrophe, we believe there is no solution anymore, and that is mainly wrong! The problem is that we are so much under tension that we can’t see a way out! And even if the people give us the solution we can’t adapt it! Our identification is our problem, nothing else! How to get rid of identification? Through Meditation!
And then we lose our self-confidence and self-esteem. For What?
We should not build our self-esteem on our acquisitions and goals. Because if we fail, we lose our self-esteem and self-confidence.
Real self-esteem comes from inside, and we can build it up from inside through Meditation and Chi-Gong. Emotions and thoughts are energy, and with Chi-Gong we can move and alter our energy. And this works since 1000 of years and even today!!!!
What to do?
When we are in a life struggle, we exhaust our body with sport or dancing like crazy to reduce our tension, anger, sadness. Boxing would be great!!! Afterward, we meditate or do our Chi-Gong. And so we build up our real self-esteem.
We can have great self-esteem and a lousy self-confidence.
We can’t always be right or do the right thing, so we must fail. Until we don’t lose our self-esteem, everything is good enough. We choose to give up our perfectionism!
My video: How to gain Self-esteem when we lose? https://youtu.be/9HgQxievaNw
My Audio on Podcast: RELAX WITH MEDITATION or see link in the end.
My Audio: https://s3-ap-southeast-1.amazonaws.com/rudizimmerer/3/How+to+gain+Self-esteem+when+we+lose..mp3