So older we grow so more difficult it gets to make friends.
For our well being, most of the people need good friends.
Today through our social media we have fewer friends and more virtually friends.
The people are more connected to the Internet than to their friends and family.
Our new Facebook friends are not real friends. If we try to meet them, to >90% it will not work out.
On vacations, it is easier to get friends and when we come home, the new friends stay far away… This will not work for most friendships… Even so on vacation, the people are much different than in their daily life.
We need friends where we live and not far away.
It is easier to get a romantic love affair because we can connect with our senses and our mind is not in the way….
Action Plan:
1.) Do it blind…
Ask your family/friends if they know somebody in your location which could fit you….
And date that person…
2.) Share your hobbies, – my favorite
Go to local events or clubs and meet new people….
3.) We all know a bunch of people and didn’t get personal… Ask personal questions and connect with the people. Look what you have in common and connect.
4.) Goal setting:
Go to an event/party and connect with not more than 3 people… So more people we try to connect so less our chances to make at least one friend.
5.) Try to connect with a smile and then speak to the unknown person… It works!
6.) Be open to all kinds of people… Don’t limit yourself,- even it is a freak you don’t like. Maybe he, she has something common or something that you like to be or not to be.
My Video: How to make new friends? https://youtu.be/fmQn3omqA18
My Audio on Podcast: RELAX WITH MEDITATION or see link in the end.
My Audio: https://s3-ap-southeast-1.amazonaws.com/rudizimmerer/5/How+to+make+new+friends.mp3