The problem is that we think, we can’t do it or cannot get it…
I have seen a YouTube from a TED talk done by an amazing old Lady Barbara Sher..
During her career, she found out, Positive Thinking will never work out for her to get what she wanted…
But what then?
The solution was coming to her when she was leading encounter groups for free. Barbara got that job from an encounter therapist, who said, why are you not leading such groups? Barbara attended such encounter groups because she was frustrated.
An encounter group is: everybody should be as terrible as possible to each other…
Yelling, let go of the emotions…
And then the people will calm down…
How it works:
1. We do need serenity to solve our problems!
Let go of our negative suppressed emotions…
The most unattractive person (Ronny) in the group was depressed…
He said I am depressed…
2. Be honest when you want something and ask for help!!!!
Why are you depressed?
I hate where I am living… And I don’t have the power to find a new apartment, because I am depressed!
3. Tell the people your obstacle to get what you want!
All people like to solve problems and to feel good by solving a problem!
We will find for you a new apartment and do a painting party so that your apartment looks good…
Next problem from Ronny…
1. I am depressed because I don’t get a girlfriend…
2. I am so unattractive; every girl hates me…
The group agreed… we will change you so that you become attractive.
3. The group needed 6 months to change Ronny, so that Ronny could be vulnerable, lovely, and wear nice cloth…
Then the group organized parties and were inviting female strangers from the street and pubs, …
Guess, he got his girlfriend, whom he totally could love.
Barbara had an idea… To go on the stage and ask the auditorium for the most impossible dream…
And she wanted to know the obstacle why the person can’t get what he/she dreams about…
For instance:
To dance with a certain famous star.
No money, no time, to do a cruise tour.
To become a cowboy as an accountant…
To rent a chimpanzee for very less money…
Guess all dreams could be solved!
Because the entire auditorium was eager to help and had the connection to overcome the obstacle to solve that problem.
My Video: Isolation is a dream killer https://youtu.be/KGGUplx-oaY
My Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast2/Isolation-is-a-dream-killer.mp3
The problem is that we think, we can’t do it or cannot get it…
I have seen a YouTube from a TED talk done by an amazing old Lady Barbara Sher..
During her career, she found out, Positive Thinking will never work out for her to get what she wanted…
But what then?
The solution was coming to her when she was leading encounter groups for free. Barbara got that job from an encounter therapist, who said, why are you not leading such groups? Barbara attended such encounter groups because she was frustrated.
An encounter group is: everybody should be as terrible as possible to each other…
Yelling, let go of the emotions…
And then the people will calm down…
How it works:
1. We do need serenity to solve our problems!
Let go of our negative suppressed emotions…
The most unattractive person (Ronny) in the group was depressed…
He said I am depressed…
2. Be honest when you want something and ask for help!!!!
Why are you depressed?
I hate where I am living… And I don’t have the power to find a new apartment, because I am depressed!
3. Tell the people your obstacle to get what you want!
All people like to solve problems and to feel good by solving a problem!
We will find for you a new apartment and do a painting party so that your apartment looks good…
Next problem from Ronny…
1. I am depressed because I don’t get a girlfriend…
2. I am so unattractive; every girl hates me…
The group agreed… we will change you so that you become attractive.
3. The group needed 6 months to change Ronny, so that Ronny could be vulnerable, lovely, and wear nice cloth…
Then the group organized parties and were inviting female strangers from the street and pubs, …
Guess, he got his girlfriend, whom he totally could love.
Barbara had an idea… To go on the stage and ask the auditorium for the most impossible dream…
And she wanted to know the obstacle why the person can’t get what he/she dreams about…
For instance:
To dance with a certain famous star.
No money, no time, to do a cruise tour.
To become a cowboy as an accountant…
To rent a chimpanzee for very less money…
Guess all dreams could be solved!
Because the entire auditorium was eager to help and had the connection to overcome the obstacle to solve that problem.
My Video: Isolation is a dream killer https://youtu.be/KGGUplx-oaY
My Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast2/Isolation-is-a-dream-killer.mp3