Looks very controversial but it works…
A female computer scientist analyzed online dating at OkCupid from 10 Millions of daters.
She analyzed all of the successful dating conversations between 2013 and 2018:
1.) 61% of conversations take place between an older man and a younger woman, and in almost half of them, the age gap is at least five years older.
2.) The older-woman-younger-man combo is significantly rarer (appearing in less than one-third of all conversations), and in only 12% of these is the woman at least five years older.
3.) Men start 80% of conversations on OkCupid, and they tend to message younger women. The older men get the women, so younger the women are
4.) Women, on the other hand, message and respond most often to men about their own age. Once they reach 35, women actually respond more often to younger guys. But because men are usually the conversation starters, the older-man-younger-woman paradigm prevails.
5.)But when women message men, they’re actually more likely to get a response from younger men than they are from older ones.
A 40-year-old woman will have better luck messaging a 25-year-old man (60% reply rate) than a 55-year-old one (36% reply rate), according to the data. And a 30-year-old man is more likely to respond to a message from a 50-year-old woman than to a message from any other age group. When women make the first move, the age gap dating norm is reversed.
For instance: Trevor, a 28-year-old mathematician, “Well to be honest,” said Trevor, “I usually go for older women. They have more interesting jobs and hobbies, and their profiles are just better… no stupid selfie-only profiles.”
For instance me. I had a tough life and very strenuous study with awful health problems. Until 25 years I was a virgin…
And the dating with women didn’t work out.
So I have made the group Sexual Awareness in the Bhagwan/Osho scene… And then I was together with a 50 years old teacher who had already 4 kids in the same age as me… So what, she wanted sex like crazy, and I was capable ..,, And the relationship was very relaxed or the most relaxed relationship I ever had with a woman…
There are a lot of those 50-year-old women who really clean up with the 20-year-old dudes. To be fair, very few 50-year-old women (fewer than 1%) actually message men this young, but when they do, they kill it. In an interview, Cindy Gallop, the 57-year-old founder of MakeLoveNotPorn.com who openly champions the benefits of women dating younger men.
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