What is the difference between positive thinking and constructive thinking? With positive thinking we try to avoid negative thoughts, feelings and want to see only every thing positive. If we ignore our negative thoughts and doubts, then we live in a dream world and can’t adapt fast enough on a changing world.
What we reject that persist and what we avoid works against us. A. Robbins said: utilize your doubts to become better and to make your business better. He means, that we should be aware of our doubts, so that we see what is weak inside of us or in our business, so that we have always a plan B.
A. Robbins said, it is good to suffer in order to change our life…then we have the emergency and the power to change us and our business… For that we need to suffer!
If we suppress total our negativity then this will manifest in our body as cancer or tumor. For instance this had happened to Zig Ziglar and Brendon Burchard….
There are good and bad times, night and day, so there is also happiness and sorrow… In order to feel happiness we must have the opposite pole sorrow… We can’t change this on the worldly plan, in the spiritual world we can go beyond it… and for this is meditation. The negative side inside of me, is very valuable for me, because it shows me where I am wrong and what I should improve. I am happy for that to improve and learn every day! So the live is exciting. There is nothing bad in our life only our judging!
Constructive thinking is, that we focus on the things that we want and still see the whole picture. Because if we don’t see the whole picture, how can we decide in the best way? At the end we want to accept everything the positive and negative side and only that brings peace in the mind. Then there is no reason to think anymore and we get stillness in the mind. At the end we let go our doubts, sorrow… and our focus is so much better, because we have confronted our self with the opposite side and know that this is not true for us anymore. Let go the negativity and do not suppress them. If we see how relationships are got broken because of ignoring the negativities in the relationships. The same is true for every business…
What doesn’t work? Don’t take it personally… You can see people who are just like babies and they can ask for everything without to be afraid… Why should they be anxious? If the person rejects them, they even try it harder… Because it is challenging. If we go to every girl what we desire and