Are we responsible for everything that happen to us?
This looks really weird? If somebody is beating us up without a reason or crashing in our car on his own fault or raping us… then for sure he/she is guilty/bad… and we want a compensation or maybe a revenge for that?
The next question are maybe for instance:
Why this happened to us?
What is the cause?
Why we attract this?
Was the reason we had a bad childhood?
This means, we find in any way a reason to blemish something or somebody for our misfortune.
What is when we had success?
Again we find in anyway the reason that we are responsible for that because of… The reality is, that we depend on so many things that we have no control over it,- we should be a little bit more humble. The most of the most successful people even don’t know why they have been so successful.
Think over, how many people try their best, working hard and never had the chance to make both ends fit or get the great business what they have deserved…. Do you think, because they have done it wrong…? Or maybe he had bad circumstances, bad luck, no grace of God….
Think over you go to the lottery and win $1Mill…. You have done it right… and the other had done it wrong?
In London they have done a long research over the most happiest people in London. They have interviewed for instance a guy with a very heavy accident, and many parts of his body was broken… And he looked happy and said even he felt awesome, because the last time when he had such an accident he found his soul mate (the nurse who was caring for him) and is married since 8 years with lovely children, for sure he expect that he will have luck again. Another guy who had inherited over 1 Mill Pound and felt miserable… because it was not more…
This research found out, people are so more happy, so more they feel for every circumstance responsible and even thankful!
This means we can blemish always somebody or something when we have bad luck, and for sure we will attract so more bad luck for that.
And if we have luck for sure we are responsible for that.
From the logic it makes only sense, if we are responsible for our luck and success then we are also responsible for our bad luck and failing.
It is science proved that we attract what is inside of us, so that we relive our past. We even manipulate the environment to get the same tragedy again and again…. Who is for that responsible?
If we would make therapy and release our traumas, then for sure we don’t have to repeat our tragedies….