Theses chasing and pursuing of women comes from neediness, that we are a needy boy and that doesn’t feel so good….
Women love a man who is:
1.) Confident,
2.) Vulnerable,
3.) Who has the courage to step up and go in front of them?
The females dislike a needy man.
A woman dislikes when a man is staring at her and is not acting.
In our society, the men have learned to chase and to pursue their goals. And this never works out.
If we enjoy our work we become much more successful than to chase our success.
If we are under success pressure we fail much more than to be relaxed.
Because our fears to fail, will attract to fail. And we lose our creativity when we are under tension.
Imagine you want to seduce a girl and you are under tension. Do you think that you can entertain the girl so well? You are rather a greedy beast who wants sex like a rapist and the women hate that.
Also, I have tried out to chase women, even as an introvert. And the results had been so devastating that I stopped early in my manhood to chase any woman.
What I have found out: so more I run after women so faster the women run away.
At first, I tried out to become independent happy, to be content with my self and the girls were contacting me. I started with self-experience groups, tantra, and bioenergetic groups and made every day my meditation. And through that, I became vulnerable, sensitive and content with my self. And the women loved that. I became one of their favorites. And within one year, I became attractive for the women and before I had no chance.
Every man can do so.
Then I tried the strategy, just to be relaxed and look in the eyes of an attractive girl. When she was looking back I smiled and went in front of her. I, as a stutterer, was afraid to speak with that girl. Instead, I just approached her and when it was okay with her I embraced her…
How I found out if I could embrace her or not.
Instead, to play cool, I showed her how vulnerable I am and could feel what she wants.
And that is not so difficult…
First, become attractive to yourself and then You don’t have to bother for a date.
My Video: Stop chasing women https://youtu.be/f_kvEF64Xpk
My Audio on Podcast: RELAX WITH MEDITATION or see link in the end.
My Audio: https://s3-ap-southeast-1.amazonaws.com/rudizimmerer/5/Stop+chasing+women.mp3