Even we try to get everything under our control, we can’t control our relationships.
And most relationships end with closed hearts because of anxiety to get hurt…
Without the uncertainty:
1.) is no love possible,
2.) is no personal growth,
3.) no spirituality,
4.) no excitement….
Still, most people hate uncertainty and so the relationship ends.
We die without dying.
We can only do our best to nurture our relationship, instead to wait that our partner gives us his/her appreciation.
We can search where we are wrong, instead to look where our spouse is wrong.
Instead of playing cool we share openly our feelings and speak about our fears. Because we are human beings and we are full of negative habits, mistakes and never perfect.
Or do you want to marry an Apple or a smartphone?
Instead of demanding love we give love regardless of what.
Because we want to love and not end up frustrated when we can’t get the love…
We don’t depend on our partner.
We can only love when we are independent… slavery will never work out.
Look what your partner needs instead to look that your partner fulfills your desires. And so you candle your love.
Almost the love in the relationship is not synchrony. The most beautiful moments in your relationship might be the worst moments for your partner.
An awesome love relationship over 20 years ended when both read their diaries for every day.
Choose trust
Even your partner doesn’t deserve trust. I trust in God that I get always the best… I don’t trust people because every person can fail. What God gives me is enough… And my spouse is an eternity of God.
We try our best and if it is not working out, we can’t blemish ourselves.
With every relationship, I have learned so much, for what I should regret it?
And then get engaged again.
My Video: The beauty of uncertainty https://youtu.be/_5SkrZUawYM
My Audio on Podcast: RELAX WITH MEDITATION or see link in the end.
My Audio: https://s3-ap-southeast-1.amazonaws.com/rudizimmerer/5/The+beauty+of+uncertainty.mp3