In most cases, men are potent and have psychological problems to sleep with women.
If you think that you are impotent, do a clinical erection test by yourself – is at the end…
If you have a physical problem:
Go to the doctor to scan your prostate.
If the prostate is okay, fast for at least 7 days that the blood vessel in that lower abdomen can be purified and the physical problem is solved.
Or look up for Mantak Cia /Tao-Garden in Chiang Mai in Thailand, they can solve your problem.
Low testosterone level and aging.
I recommend these herbs.
1.) Fo-Ti (He Shou Wu, Chinese Cornbind)
2.) Ginseng
3.) Ashwagandha
4.) Gingko Biloba
5.) Goji Berries (Wolf Berries)
6.) Astragalar
7.) Lingzhi Mushrooms
8.) Gotu Kola
9.) Jiao Gu Lan
The first 5 herbs are increasing your testosterone and other sexual hormones… At least they make your body strong. The last 4 herbs are for busting your immune system and heart… I take all of them every day by capsules or as tea.
Many men become homosexual because of their problems with women.
About 70% of all married couples experience a sexual dysfunction in their lifetime!
The wives think that the men are impotent and can’t see that maybe they are the problem!
I will cover now the psychological problems.
Why can’t men get an erection?
It is a performance anxiety caused through:
1.) Sexually abused in your childhood.
2.) Dominant mother or sister that pushed you always down.
3.) Bad consciousness.
4.) Too much stress or tension.
5.) Sham.
6.) Fear of failure
7.) Relationship problems.
8.) Unattractive sexual partner
9.) Rejection of women.
Because the anxiety causes the erection problem.
To get an erection:
We need to be aroused and relaxed.
Tip 1
Exercises (see also Youtube: Mantak Chia at the end)
Masturbate every second day until you have a full erection and then stop. Let your erection die and re-arouse yourself again… Make that 3 times and then it is allowed to release your semen. You can use pornography or imagination of sexual situation.
Psychology effect:
You train your brain, that you can arouse yourself and don’t need to release your semen.
Tip 2:
Solve your relationship problems.
Or better go to a therapist or group…
When I have problems in the relationship or if I want to sleep just so with a girl, I can’t do so. Because my body and mind reject that women…
I need intimacy and without intimacy, I can’t sleep with any women.
And I was sexually abused in my childhood…. that makes sex with women much more difficult.
Never the less I have slept with over 100 women… and many times I could not.
When I could solve often that problem with a so bad childhood then you can do too!
Still, it is a challenge and that is good so!
Tip 3:
Speak about your sexual problems and find other ways to improve your sex life.
Couples, who just give up on the sexual dysfunction of the man will never get the sexual problems solved.
Touch your partner, be lovely and don’t set yourself under pressure. Sleep naked, be close to your partner and try to arouse each other without any tension.
Make your partner orgasms without an intercourse.
My Video: Why can’t men sleep with women? https://youtu.be/FRlr5QmSEWU
My Audio on Podcast: RELAX WITH MEDITATION or see link in the end.
My Audio: https://s3-ap-southeast-1.amazonaws.com/rudizimmerer/5/Why+can%E2%80%99t+men+sleep+with+women.mp3
Erection test: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VQplgWAbTtg
Sexual exercises for men by Mantak Chia https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CnOg_ZS4eSE