The pursuit of love is a path that we all travel … Who gets it right?
Is true and lasting love possible?
After a recent study, a year sex with the same partner is far better than to have more partners and after a year we need a change…
Scientists examined data from 16,000 Americans and found the happiness‐maximizing number of sexual partners in the previous year is calculated to be one.
The approach just to believe that the true and lasting love will happen to you will never happen… Look around you …
The belief we manifest what we desire is only true when we include our unconsciousness desires. And these unconsciousness desires are always in the way to get what we consciously want.
If we want a more fulfilling relationship make these 5 steps:
Do we deserve a fulfilling love relationship when our childhood didn’t have experienced that?
Get rid of all of your childhood traumas that are obstacles to a fulfilling love.
That is easy to say and even for most people are not possible. This means we have to work our whole life on ourselves to become a lovable person. And then we deserve that love!
We have to uncover all of our inside beliefs that are against that fulfilling love.
Imagine your father was coming home stressed out. How was he dealing with your family? Was he lovely?
We have overtaken unconsciously the bad habits of our parents. Compare, how you would deal with your spouse when you are angry, is it similar how your parents did?
2.) Know what your mind wants and what kind of spouses you are attracted to. Are they the same?
Know, what kind of habits you don’t want for your spouse. And are you attracted to the habits of your spouse that you don’t want?
Make a list what kind of spouse you want and what you don’t want.
Make a list of what kind of spouses you had already and which habits they had.
Make a list of which kind of people you are most attracted. Are they your dream or hell partners?
3.) When you start to date, start small…
First, get in the habit of dating and be tolerant if you can’t get directly your dream partner.
After some time your partners will be better choices.
4.) Look what you get, are they what you want?
5.) Be open to receiving your dream partner.
My Video: The Pursuit of Love https://youtu.be/yvOHIcRHF-Q
My Audio on Podcast: RELAX WITH MEDITATION or see link in the end.
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