Imagine you are choosing again and again a spouse that made you suffer so much that you regret to be together with her/him and so you separate…
What would have happened if your parents have chosen for you the ideal spouse?
Could you avoid your suffering?
Would you have a happy marriage?
Would you have a happy life?
Or would your life happier?
Would your life more fulfilled?
If all of these questions would be answered positively, –
I ask you: Why do you choose in the first place the wrong spouse that lets you suffer so hardly?
The Psychology proves to 100% that you have chosen your spouse because of your experiences in your childhood!
Would you have a really happy childhood; I mean not your idealized childhood; I mean a truly happy childhood with awesome lovely parents that were serving to your interest at best; you had chosen a spouse that makes you mainly happy and would be similar like your parents! And that is psychologically proved for nearly every couple!
And your believes in coincidences that you have chosen your spouse are not true. I know everybody wants to be that coincident… But nobody is true, because never have existed any coincidence in the past… Everything happens for a reason!
If your parents have chosen for you the best possible spouse, your life would not be happier, nor your marriage…
Again the psychology has proved that everybody manipulates his or her environment to repeat the same experiences/traumas from their childhood…
I was together with drama magnets, and they tried again and again to manipulate me to act badly… But I could prevent that many times… It looked so that they loved to get punished unfairly from me.
But at the end of the day, they got their well seek outcome…
Next example, can you ever prove to an over-jealous girl/boyfriend that you never have slept with another darling during the time when you have been together?
For sure not, … And with this example, you can understand that you never have the chance to alter the psychological behavior of someone…
Only the jealous person can change his jealousy habits and so can change his life.
If you want to live a healthy, happy life you have to make therapy, otherwise your life will be a repetition of your childhood! And that is also to 100% psychological proved!
My Video: The remedy of regrets https://youtu.be/4oKnVXMv8lU
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