Why?
We are all limited by our beliefs…
And our beliefs are formed in our childhood…
The first 7 years we let in every information unfiltered…
If our parents abuse us, we believe that we are not good.
Even worse are our traumas. They are the biggest obstacles in our life to get a fulfilling relationship or the success that we deserve…
If we idealize our upcoming or our parents, we never will get what we want.
Guess almost everybody is idealizing their parents and childhood.
If you idealize your parents, you don’t love your parents… If you forgive your parents, you can love your parents.
If our parents had money problems, then to 80% we will have the same problem…
And this goes on and on…
Our society and religion want us to idealize our parents and our upcoming..
That we should be thankful…
For 100% sure, our parents had to sacrifice their time, energy and money for us… And for that, they earn our respect and love. We never can pay that back.
Nevertheless, if we idealize our childhood and parents, we can’t change our life!
This is very contradicting… Many generations of psychologist have proved that:
“We are the product of our childhood.”
If we want to change our life in the best way we should work on our childhood with these hurtful traumas…
Regardless of what these so-called spiritual teachers are thinking from that….
I had the fortune that my first Guru Osho (Bhagwan) wanted us to face our traumas from our childhood, to make the inner journey easy… And he was so right!!!
Even I could teach the best meditation techniques,
but the traumas of the people hinder them to connect to the divine or God…
I was in many Ashrams, at many gurus, and I never saw fast growing on the inner path.
I saw the people for many years with nearly no progress. And it would be so easy to bring them with one wonderful group on a higher level and that in 14 days… Instead nearly nothing happened…
And this true for every area… Get rid of your traumas and nobody can stop you anymore.
My Video: Your childhood holds you back https://youtu.be/cLbMCqWEuP8
My Audio on Podcast: RELAX WITH MEDITATION or see link in the end.
My Audio: https://rudizimmerer.s3-ap-southeast-1.amazonaws.com/6/Your+childhood+holds+you+back.mp3