The question is, why are high achievers so successful?
Do they have a deficit?
The majority of them got trained to believe without outstanding performance in their childhood they don’t get love or attention from their parents!
They believed as kids that they were not worthwhile without being successful or extraordinarily good in at least one subject.
So the bigger and better, you are, so more love and attention you get from your parents.
They tried to get validation from their father… They thought they had to deliver something special.
Later, when they are married, they think they have to deliver something special for their wife to get love from her!
80% of males buy a diamond ring to have sex with their wives! A prostitute is cheaper!
Their lifestyle is:
Never to have time,
to be over-scheduled/overworked/ exhausted,
to bring extraordinary results to get love for that!
And even worse, they evaluate people for giving their love and attention…
Even it is a lovable person, and didn’t have success…
Guess in their mind this guy is B. S…
Do they love people to the extent that I could do when they are not successful or doing the things that they love?
If we value our personality just over the success or money that we have, is a handicap to love!
If we don’t truly love ourselves we can’t love at all!
Most of all high achievers have this syndrome until they deliver in a big way they don’t value themselves or any other person…
So I remember my father, he was that high achiever. He had minority feelings for his outstanding, great father who was an adorable person in every way… 6500 people came to his funeral!
And I never have seen love in my family… Money and success was the most important thing…
Eventually, I left the family after taking so much therapy with the best therapists…
When I was a kid, I wanted nothing more than to run away from this hell family!
My Video: Can high achievers really love? https://youtu.be/sfsjI_40mTc
My Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast3/Can-high-achievers-really-love.mp3