Many people like to live anonymous in the city.
I was growing up in a big family (my mother got 5 kids (2x twins) within 3 years) in a small suburb…
The people rejected us because of being Atheists… and watched us, bullied us, abused us…
The solution was to escape in a town where nobody knows you….
Is the solution to live anonymous really what we want?
Is it not better to live in a suburb, even people think and feel different?
What is if you feel lonely in a city?
It is up to you what you make out of your situation.
You can also feel to be alone in a relationship, family, or in the crowd.
But somehow you are not alone in a city, even you are alone!
So you can choose to go out easily and to sit in a bar….
You have many options that you don’t have in a village.
You can choose to go to a variety of …
Participate in many activities.
Meet very different people.
In the night you can go to discotheques, music concerts, bars…
Still, life in a city is anonymous.
You want freedom.
You want to change your perspective, your life…
So the trip to change is to be first anonymous.
You want to try out new things and without that stupid gossip that you do hate…
After some time you want some familiar places where you meet the same people.
And you don’t want all the time something new…
And then you are in a place as before.
Again the people define you and your freedom is over until you leave that group…
You have to start to be anonymous again…
That is the problem with our life. The people put you in a basket and hinder you from trying out something new.
It is just to be like a crab in a basket with many other crabs… The other crabs will hinder you from going out of the basket … so that you get eaten …
And that is the chance to live anonymous to be free….
To live anonymous because you don’t like people or you are depressed will not bear any positive fruit.
My Video: Living in a city, a curse, or a blessing? https://youtu.be/qf3dqLYWXeQ
My Audio on Podcast: RELAX WITH MEDITATION or see link in the end.
My Audio: https://s3-ap-southeast-1.amazonaws.com/rudizimmerer/5/Living+in+a+city%2C+a+curse%2C+or+a+blessing.mp3