Every woman like to know!
There is a TED talk about that…
If you think that sex is the most important thing to go to a sex worker you are dam wrong!
The boys are growing up in the belief:
Boys should not cry.
Boys should be independent.
Boys should not be weak, should be strong always.
Boys should be over cool and not showing feelings…
A man who can’t cry use bullets!
A man who cannot share intimacy is always lonely.
A man who can’t speak openly over his feelings in situations is a candidate for suicide… (males make 4 times more suicide than females)
A man who has no compassion becomes a drug-addicted or a violent person!
Still, many parents have not found out that boys have feelings and problems like girl …
A girl gets 4 times more hugs than a boy!!!! Why?
And today we have so much violence because of the parents, who have not given enough love to their sons.
All we need is love this also includes males!!!!
For what are then sex workers?
Average sex intercourse needs 5 minutes…
Why are men booking hours if they can afford that, to be together with a sex worker?
A man wants to show how he is, and this is for many men only possible through sex. And if they have slept with a woman, the ice is broken, and they can share their feelings.
The opposite is valid for a woman, she wants first the intimacy to have sex with a man.
The men are going to a sex worker:
To share their feelings.
To speak about their problems.
To get intimacy.
To build up a rapport.
To feel worthy.
To connect with a human being.
To be as they are without hiding… without to be somebody…
To get accepted and not rejected.
Fear of rejection.
No Sex or too less sex with their spouse.
To have easy sex.
And women think if a male is shy or afraid of rejection, this guy is not worthy!
So what, women have the same problem to connect with an unknown person like most of the males. Still, they think that shy men are not worthy, even they are not better…
That is good for the sex workers!
The females are missing out for the best spouses,…
I know so many good guys that can’t find a girlfriend because of their wrong or missing seduction techniques…
And the same is true for women…
Should we wait for the next 1000 years until the females can go for the best spouse instead to wait and nothing is happening?
My Video: Why are going men to sex workers? https://youtu.be/J5DmblWSe5Y
My Audio on Podcast: RELAX WITH MEDITATION or see link in the end.
My Audio: https://s3-ap-southeast-1.amazonaws.com/rudizimmerer/5/Why+are+going+men+to+sex+workers.mp3