If I hear, I have found my dream partner, my soul mate… I think it doesn’t matter!!!
Every worldly love will end soon. The negative feelings that are suppressed during this love facing up and destroying the relationship.
Our parents had chosen a marriage of convenience, or their parents or astrology has chosen their “Right” spouse, and this didn’t work out too.
Nothing is working?
My generation had lived without marriage certification together, and this relationship is much better. Because after the wedding your spouse is granted and can’t escape. You can do what you want. The husband has pulled the Black Peter because after the law the husband has to pay in any case.
Regardless how we have chosen our best match. What works at best is that both care for each other every day.
Psychology has proved, when the sex or the communication is bad, the relationship is terminal!
Many couples live together in frustration. When they start to communicate honest over their problems and start to have sex again, their relationship becomes healthy.
After the WW2 in Germany, many soldiers didn’t come home, and the widows connected with the left over. This is called the meal ticket relationship. Most of the time, the widows could not marry their new spouse because the government didn’t support the widows anymore.
These meal ticket relationships had been the best.
Because both had not huge expectation, they had only the consents to live together, to support each other.
This means even without your dream partner who is maybe becoming later your hell partner, you can live together happily if you get rid of your expectations.
Both should decide to be together for some time, help each other and have sex. And this sometime can last your whole life. Because you don’t put yourself under pressure to must be together for 50 years or to expect too much from each other.
This soul mate, dream partner or the right match has done worse than just to find a partner to live with, who cooperates and is not so selfish.
My video: Why we need a soul mate? https://youtu.be/iGZwBqcQenw
My Audio on Podcast: RELAX WITH MEDITATION or see link in the end.
My Audio: https://s3-ap-southeast-1.amazonaws.com/rudizimmerer/4/Why+we+need+a+soul+mate.mp3