Perfect children

Perfect children
When I was growing up our parents were continuously complaining about us…. And then they were giving us good example of obedient children… who were always polite, never said any abusive words, never fighting, very good in school, with other words perfect … I was a total failure, could not learn speaking, was a stutterer and when speaking used bad abusive slang words… My parents could not force me to do certain things, when I was convinced it was wrong or unjustly…Then they were beating me up, never less they could not convince me. And then we saw our great children idols making suicide, became drug addicted, separated (never come back) from their so (great?) parents, died early on cancer, sexually obsessed,…. At the end my parents didn’t dare to compare us with other children anymore, because then they got a hard time from us. If we see the hooligans in football stadiums in Germany, beating each other up… And the statistic shows that they are mainly working in Banks, with great controlled manners, always polite, never dare to say a wrong words… We hear and read from the perfect functioning managers who prefer perverse sex with Domina or dirty sex… Or also from the overworked manager with similar perverse preferences. Do you think that these over controlling of feelings, thoughts and words leads to a happy life? Do you think that the drilled obedience of the children is working or is very bad? Or is it better to drill your computer and let your children the freedom to express their feelings and thoughts as they are? If I still can’t convince you, the German terrorists were growing up mainly in Teacher or Pastor families… Or maybe all of these example are a coincidence? Or maybe it is an ego trip of the parents to have total obedient children with great education, always the best in school… ? Pink Floyd Hit: The Wall, (We don’t need no education, we don’t need no thought control, Teachers leave them kids alone……) The Beatles: Make it even more clear… All we need is Love… A child will naturally do the right thing, if it is getting enough love… But the right thing doesn’t mean that it is doing exactly what the so perfect parents want… After a media research in Germany, 95% of the mothers think, that they are perfect. I never have seen a perfect mother, and self-righteous mothers everywhere… As parents we have to learn to forgive and this forgiveness starts first with ourself, … So that we can forgive us easily for every mistake and then to forgive the own children is much easier… We should desire for our children that they get happy and live the life that they want and not necessary what we want…
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xhgE5bfcFTU.