1.)Wrong or too less communication about what you want, how you feel leads to divorce.
Communicate what you want and accept what your spouse expect from you!
When both are hurting each other continuously, the love will end soon. Communicate what hurts you, without blemishing the other person!!! Because everybody is responsible for his/her life!
2.)Sex is not working out. I don’t care if you agree or not…
Males and females have a sexual drive and if the sex is not working out then the cheating will happen. The sexual drive is the second strongest drive of the human species. In the older age, the sex drive diminishes. Talk about openly what you want, without hurting each other. It might be scaring!
3.)Money problem… There exist only 10% of the people who love to save money and 90% are overspender. What happens if a saver is together with an overspender? Clashes…. Money problems lead to 50% to divorces. Talk openly about your debts, income and how much you save every month!
T. Harv Eker has created for that a great system…
4.) Connect with the spouse family and check out what they expect from you. Otherwise, the spouse family can harm your relationship tremendous. For instance, in Asia is the family more important than the spouse, can you live with that?
5.) Distributing the dirty work. When both are working, both should make the cleaning. Create a good system for both!
6.) Understand the need and the kind of love your partner need. For instance, some girls love to kiss always and I don’t like that. I like more to embrace without kissing. Talk about that.
7.) Religion. Do you have different Religions and so different obligations? Like to be a vegan or … Talk about that, and also in which Religion the kids should be baptized.
My Video: The 7 biggest obstacles in marriages https://youtu.be/ZhB2llz3hiU
My Audio on Podcast: RELAX WITH MEDITATION or see link in the end.
My Audio: https://s3-ap-southeast-1.amazonaws.com/rudizimmerer/5/The+7+biggest+obstacles+in+marriages.mp3