In a love relationship, both feeling often very insecure because they don’t know, if the darling:
Will leave them alone.
Will reject them.
Will hurt them.
Dislike to have sex with them.
Has a second spouse.
Will be resentful.
Will not fulfill their desires.
No common future.
Afraid that the spouse will exploit them.
Afraid how long will the love last.
Afraid there exist better spouses.
And fear can easily destroy every relationship…
We need trust in ourselves and in our spouse…
Or to have faith in the lord.
The best concept is to define yourself to build up confidence and self-esteem.
Without this concept will break every relationship.
You cannot love somebody if you have fear, jealousy or less self-esteem, …
If we hope that the relationship is getting better in the future when the spouse changed as we want so… Then we are on the wrong path!
Both have to accept each other as they are… Otherwise to condition the spouse is not working because it makes the spouse angry, sad and fearful…
If we try our best to live in the present, then we address our problems with our spouse to our spouse. If the communication or sex is not functioning in the relationship the relationship will not work out. Openly tell your problem! If you don’t do so, the fear is building up in the relationship and the relationship is over.
Sex problems occurring in every relationship, have patience and set a time frame … And if you cannot solve the sexual problems … Finish or accept.
Find something that can give you self-esteem, that relax you, that opens up your heart… otherwise the relationship is getting worse.
You don’t have to do everything together, find common ground and do things without your partner in your free time.
Give your partner the space to do something alone or to develop his/her own way. Even it hurts.
My Video: Tips to handle Insecurities in a relationship. https://youtu.be/jFbKByUYUwM
My Audio: https://rudizimmerer.s3-ap-southeast-1.amazonaws.com/6/Tips+to+handle+Insecurities+in+a+relationship.mp3