I see beautiful couples and no love…
It looks so like the smartphone is more important…
But the cause is simply not the smartphone or TV…
We have learned when we were disciples of Bhagwan/Osho…
First to open up the heart.
Without meditation, the heart will not be open for a longer time!
We get rid of our suppressed negative emotions that hinder us to love… Without body and feeling-orientated therapy, it will not be possible…
We get rid of distraction and futile thinking.
Without meditation and therapy that will not work.
Positive thinking is the biggest enemy of love because it will us support even more to suppress our emotions…
Speak as little as possible, because all people in love will easily misinterpret what their darling is saying…
In love means, to have big tomatoes in front of our eyes…
When You talk, keep eye contact or at least hand contact with each other…
Otherwise, you can’t see immediately when you are hurting your darling…
Be open to everything and nothing is granted…
And so is it with the love…
Your darling can be in a bad mood, angry…
When you are looking for love, you get rather more hurt…
Accept the mood of your darling, give space for that…
If you can’t accept the mood of your darling, simply go…
And wait until your darling is open for you again…
Love is like a magnifying glass; it shows the best and the worst of us.
If we love, then our darling is the very best for us…
If we are in a bad mood…
We misinterpret everything that is connected to our darling…
Out of fear to lose her/him, like jealousy…
Our suppressed negative emotions come up when we were idealizing our darling.
Our anger, fear, sadness, jealousy, and/or hate are overwhelming us…
And that makes our love relationship to a living hell…
Somehow, we have to control our negative emotions when we are together with our darling…
When we are alone or in therapy, we release the negative emotions so that we are open again to love…
That is and was the teaching of Bhagwan/Osho. –
We should not hurt our darling unnecessarily…
Instead, we let go and release our negative emotions that we are projecting on our lovely darling…
Because the couple doesn’t do so, there is no love anymore in the relationship.
Instead of love, there is only dependency.
If we depend on our darling, we can’t love!
I think that is the very best concept…
My Video: Where is the love? https://youtu.be/H2YOxMmg17M
My Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast2/Where-is-the love.mp3