WHY WE BEHAVE OUR WORST TO THE ONES WE LOVE MOST?
The Srimad Bhagavatam is saying that we can hate 10 times more then we can love… And nothing hurts more when a relative – spouse, mother, father, children, brother, sister, friend…are saying abusing words to us… Because we are so attached to them…. Buddha said: Relationship is sorrow… because of our attachments. For Buddha is to be friendly to everything/everybody greater then any friendship or worldly love….
Now we are going back to our question, … If we love somebody then unconscious we build up: hate and anger against that person,… because we suppress all of our negative feelings against that person in order to love that person…With other words: Love makes us blind…
In addition we get in a slavery to that person that we love, so we lose our freedom, because we need to be together with our love ones… And this makes it so hard to love…
The great Sufi Attar (martyr of love) knew it better, he said if you see mistakes in your love ones, the love is over…
How to come out of this? Just release your buildup negative feelings that you had suppressed, when you had been together with your love one. And then start fresh to love again…. For that I have given you Bio energetic and EFT to release our negative suppressed feelings in previous blogs…
