We want love, and we go to the wrong people and suffer. Or we choose the wrong moment and get a slap in our face….
Why do we act in such a stupid way?
I have seen many times, when I was not open for a new love story I became the target of girls… And the same I have done by myself…
So cooler I am so more attractive? Seems so?
Maybe we need this slap in our face? If we run behind women/men, they run away, because they recognize our intention… If we need their love, how can these people produce this love?
On the other hand, we want much more than love…
our body wants sex, our emotions intimacy… If we need love, we should give us first love…. If we love ourselves, we are attractive to the others…
The same story is when we are attracted to people, who don’t care for us. – We try to get attention from them or even to make many things for them to be attractive by them.
It is different if we are desperate and people like to help us because they have compassion for us.
Maybe, quite a lot of people loves/likes us, and we ignore them even they are doing a lot for us… Why are they not attractive to us?
Why do we run after people to get rejected who don’t care for us…?
Life is too short to waste a single second with anyone who doesn’t appreciate or value us.
The second best strategy that brings us great suffering is that we want everybody loves us.
Maybe this is still alive from our babyhood…
A healthy baby knows already to which people it should go to get love and attention, the other people it will omit.
Different people like different people, it is impossible to be loved by everybody. My previous Guru Bhagwan said, for every friend I make, I get a new enemy – after the law of polarity.
The wisdom of Buddha is, to be friendly and kind to everybody without having any relationship. Because a relationship is sorrow (Buddha).
If we selflessly love and serve everybody, we are beyond worldly matters… and even we get beaten up, we create out of every arrow a bunch of roses (Buddha).
When we get a slap in our right side of our face, we should turn our face and beg for the next slap on our left side face… (Jesus).
Great quotes by the Religions to exploit the people!!! Life is different!
First, Love yourself. You are the most import person in your life!
My Video: Why suffer when We want love? https://youtu.be/RmnOlz6e7UA
My Audio on Podcast: RELAX WITH MEDITATION or see link in the end.
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